Re: Get over yourself.ifyouwalkawayNovember 12 2004, 04:46:09 UTC
There isn't a hospital named Mcleans.
You said you don't conform, but then you said that you're not a rebel (or that you dont think about being one). You said you don't care what others think, but then you said that you dressed "preppy" to see people's reaction. You obviously cared about their reaction (which is what they think).
What does speaking out on gay marriage have to do with anything? How is that different from dissagreeing with your teacher on any other topic. I highly doubt the teacher thinks any differently about you, considering there are so many people who think that there is nothing wrong with gay marriage. If people didn't agree with it, it wouldn't have been on the ballot in 11 states.
You don't need to go to a hospital because you have an awful relationship with your mother. Stay with a friend or another family member if things are really that bad with your mom (or other parent, or anybody).
Just because you don't like someone doesnt mean that it's easier to be yourself and not care what they think. I would think it would be easier to be yourself around your friends. It really sounds like you're judging people based on the way they look. I really doubt that everyone who is wearing clothes different from yours are all bad. You also need to realize that people will judge you everywhere you go, just as you'll judge everyone. It's human nature. Don't even try to deny it.
You can't make things better because you would have to be "mainstream"?
That's pathetic. If you want to change things for the better if things are really as bad as you say they are, does it really matter if you dress differently (i dont know what else you mean by being mainstream)? Can't you just give in to whatever it is that will make things better? Or is being "different" really that important to you?
The way you dress doesnt make you an individual.
I never said that I knew your life's story, nor am i basing any of the things i've said on things i've heard about you. All of it comes from reading your LJ.
Re: Get over yourself.weakforyourloveNovember 12 2004, 20:08:48 UTC
Before I go anywhere for help, I'm moving to my fathers, and if it continues, then we will get help, is that not what I said? I don't know.. maybe I forgot to mention it, but that has been the plan the entire way through.
It's not just an awful relationship with my mother, it goes past that, but I'm learning to deal with these things.
The people I have based these opinions on are people who have been mean to me before. But I know I do judge, it's obvious.
I don't even want to argue with you, aparently you've been through 4372918x more than me... it's taken me some time to accept this, but you do make some good points, and they have helped.
Last year I was a stupid little girl who would have done anything to be popular and have a lot of friends.
Re: Get over yourself.ifyouwalkawayNovember 21 2004, 21:12:44 UTC
All of you stop. ..whoever owns this LJ or whatever, and posted the first entry that made everyone JUMP!! then you need to stop. If you're going to use someones name as if they're a bad person, use someone's nam you actually know, and have actually talked to the person and aren't just making an unfair judgement. as for your little 'cutting' and being all fucked up and shit, if you don't want to be harassed and ridiculed, don't post something like that where anyone in the world can read it ;) something a little more subtle might have worked. but whatever..just stop being a loser.
You said you don't conform, but then you said that you're not a rebel (or that you dont think about being one). You said you don't care what others think, but then you said that you dressed "preppy" to see people's reaction. You obviously cared about their reaction (which is what they think).
What does speaking out on gay marriage have to do with anything? How is that different from dissagreeing with your teacher on any other topic. I highly doubt the teacher thinks any differently about you, considering there are so many people who think that there is nothing wrong with gay marriage. If people didn't agree with it, it wouldn't have been on the ballot in 11 states.
You don't need to go to a hospital because you have an awful relationship with your mother. Stay with a friend or another family member if things are really that bad with your mom (or other parent, or anybody).
Just because you don't like someone doesnt mean that it's easier to be yourself and not care what they think. I would think it would be easier to be yourself around your friends. It really sounds like you're judging people based on the way they look. I really doubt that everyone who is wearing clothes different from yours are all bad. You also need to realize that people will judge you everywhere you go, just as you'll judge everyone. It's human nature. Don't even try to deny it.
You can't make things better because you would have to be "mainstream"?
That's pathetic. If you want to change things for the better if things are really as bad as you say they are, does it really matter if you dress differently (i dont know what else you mean by being mainstream)? Can't you just give in to whatever it is that will make things better? Or is being "different" really that important to you?
The way you dress doesnt make you an individual.
I never said that I knew your life's story, nor am i basing any of the things i've said on things i've heard about you. All of it comes from reading your LJ.
Who were you last year?
I'm going to sleep, I'm tired.
-Ben
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It's not just an awful relationship with my mother, it goes past that, but I'm learning to deal with these things.
The people I have based these opinions on are people who have been mean to me before. But I know I do judge, it's obvious.
I don't even want to argue with you, aparently you've been through 4372918x more than me... it's taken me some time to accept this, but you do make some good points, and they have helped.
Last year I was a stupid little girl who would have done anything to be popular and have a lot of friends.
Kerry
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