Well, sweetheart, you may not realize it, but you've sort of created a persona around yourself in the last few months that says, "With me, kissing will lead to sex. Immediately." Wearing see-through plastic bags on your date probably increased his perception of that. So here's what you do. You tell him how you feel. Then you ask for what you want--the kiss, not sex. You be polite and you wear a nice top that's not cut-down-to-THERE because you're only going to intimidate him with your WHITE-HOT BOD if you do.
The boy is probably in fairly severe psychological distress. That sort of bad parental shit doesn't happen every day. He may be toughing it out on the outside, but he's obvious suffering on the inside and he's honoring you by telling you these things. You're doing the right thing by being patient. Love on him loads. Ask yourself what will serve his needs. I'm really excited to see where this goes. A cutie who can talk? I wouldn't give up on that in a hurry.
P.S. For moral support (and a really funny movie) you totally have to see 40 Year Old Virgin. So good.
The boy is probably in fairly severe psychological distress. That sort of bad parental shit doesn't happen every day. He may be toughing it out on the outside, but he's obvious suffering on the inside and he's honoring you by telling you these things. You're doing the right thing by being patient. Love on him loads. Ask yourself what will serve his needs. I'm really excited to see where this goes. A cutie who can talk? I wouldn't give up on that in a hurry.
P.S. For moral support (and a really funny movie) you totally have to see 40 Year Old Virgin. So good.
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