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I believed in love. I was searching for it, every single day, everywhere I went. But as hard as I tried to find The One, my attempts were hampered by my secret knowledge that I, Jill Soloway, wasn't made for love. I figured I'd never find my soul mate. I'd never have a family, one of those Eileen Fisher extended clan families that take up two pages in a Vanity Fair ad, clean cousins and nieces, everyone out on the porch at the family ranch, women with silvery bangs, so many sandals.

-Jill Soloway*, Tiny Ladies In Shiny Pants

*sister of my pal Faith