......brought to you by my estranged and stand-off-ish feelings at every single sexual outburst made by the boy at Sinbad or Babylon 5. Which would pretty much be every comment
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I spent YEARS that there was no one that was a "turn on". I MARRIED my beat friend (he still is), was raising two sons & moving every 18-36 months, as the army moved him from assignment to assignment... worked full time for all but about 2 years of 35. I admit a rough childhood, the particulars are not the world's business, but it left me very picky in men in general & bed partners (& enraged at any child molestation perp). Only a small fraction of one per cent of the male population have the right "whatever" for me to even consider them... thankfully to most I am Godmother or older sister or Dutch auntie (or just not that knid of woman_... so the question never cames up. Having cleaned out some of the garbage left over from childhood about the subject, I seem to have more drive now than when I was younger. It is a paradox men have their peak drive at 17 to 25 then lower plateau till fourties then have a (lower) peak then tend to fall into "too tired- to busy" hole(with notable exceptions). Females are hoped to be un-interested till early twenties then be too busy child raising till their fourties... by then (over half) the guy(s) of their life is out hunting younger companionship. Moods come, moods go ... the season after holidays can be depressing all by themselves... in this climate we have 6-8 weeks of winter the weather turns to the better... and things get green again... Just make sure you do not put final solutions to temperorary problems. Remember the friends/family who DO love you & do know how to walk through your dreams, though most of us wait to be invited. Rest, work, study, read, write... exercise, sleep, plan, revise plans, strech and breath... (Hugs,Princess)
I MARRIED my beat friend (he still is), was raising two sons & moving every 18-36 months, as the army moved him from assignment to assignment... worked full time for all but about 2 years of 35.
I admit a rough childhood, the particulars are not the world's business, but it left me very picky in men in general & bed partners (& enraged at any child molestation perp).
Only a small fraction of one per cent of the male population have the right "whatever" for me to even consider them... thankfully to most I am Godmother or older sister or Dutch auntie (or just not that knid of woman_... so the question never cames up.
Having cleaned out some of the garbage left over from childhood about the subject, I seem to have more drive now than when I was younger.
It is a paradox men have their peak drive at 17 to 25 then lower plateau till fourties then have a (lower) peak then tend to fall into "too tired- to busy" hole(with notable exceptions).
Females are hoped to be un-interested till early twenties then be too busy child raising till their fourties... by then (over half) the guy(s) of their life is out hunting younger companionship.
Moods come, moods go ... the season after holidays can be depressing all by themselves...
in this climate we have 6-8 weeks of winter the weather turns to the better... and things get green
again... Just make sure you do not put final solutions to temperorary problems.
Remember the friends/family who DO love you &
do know how to walk through your dreams, though most of us wait to be invited.
Rest, work, study, read, write... exercise, sleep, plan, revise plans, strech and breath...
(Hugs,Princess)
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