Nov 12, 2008 14:51
Let me educate for a second.
VICTIM BLAMING is NOT OKAY.
Sexual violence is serious fucking business and it should be in everyone's utmost interest to believe someone who has experienced it. It's hard to admit that someone you are friends with could be a perpetrator, but it happens. do not "blacklist" victims because you feel entitled to make shallow judgements on their sexual behavior. because you find the way they chose to express their sexuality so OFFENSIVE to you that you can't wrap your fickle brains around the fact that even people who have active sex lives, can actually be raped.