what is real
i have been hearing more and more people calling other people fake lately. i dont always agree but i just shake my head so not to cause an arugment. though the more i hear it the more i wonder... what is being fake? people say its when you try to be someone your not. but what if your trying to be something you want to be is that fake cause i always thought that as self improvement. arent we all just trying to make our selves better? you cant say your not. no matter what you wish something was diffrent. say if your ugly you wana be pretty or if your fat and wana be skiny. so wearing make up trying to make your self look good doesn't that make every women who puts it on fake because thats what yall say. what about the little guy who runs with the big guys cause he wants to be big so he trys to be friends with them so they may invite him to work out? is that fake or self improvement. what about the people who act diffrent when hanging out with diffrent crowds is that fake or is it the mere fact that you are friends with all the groups but certian people hate certin things. that one i can relate to alot since i have recently been calle fake because i dont have just one "type" of friends hmmmm now i do admit that i act diffrent around diffrent people but i do not change my opinions or sacrifice my morals to fit in but none the less im acting like a diffrent person so doesnt that make me fake. what about the people who are smart but dont try in class cause they dont wana be called a geek now thats fake. and what bout some smart people who would kill to have just a lil fun and excitment with us average joes but are of afraid of being looked down apon by their fellow peers. no matter how you look at it you cant realy call anyone fake because we all are if we werent we would be screwed everyone would kill everyone. so heres the real question not whats fake but whats real or how bout why do we judge when we ourselves deserve judgment. We all hate being judged so why are forcing ourselves to be what we hate. anyways i know some smart ass is going to find some way to try and explain it to me but you know no matter how hard they try they cant answer these things.