me, hit on?
I think I was hit on last night. I'm a bit ashamed that I didn't really notice it until 30 minutes later.
Set up: Worked all day then taught a trumpet lesson, dressed all in black, went to Kowalski's in Uptown to get some groceries and a deli dinner (as I was not about to cook last night).
So, while I was shopping I met up with Kevin from my 6 weeks of yoga classes (that ended nearly a month ago). He stopped me and called me by name, and while I was busy looking dumbfounded (because I find him quite attractive and wasn't really expecting to run into anyone I knew there) he reminded me of his name. We chatted about holidays and such things for 2 or 3 minutes (more than we ever talked at yoga)... during this conversation he touched my arm twice and asked me if I was a family man or if I was single. Lots of eye contact, smiles, etc. And what do I do? I just end the conversation with, "maybe I'll see you back at yoga sometime."
I get home and start eating my meat loaf and green beans and it hits me *bam* like a truck. Have I separated myself from the gays so much that I can't detect when someone might be flirting with me? I should have asked for Kevin's number... we should have gone out for a drink... we should have found our way to the restroom and fucked (riiight...) I should have at least asked him about the girls and guy that he came to yoga with (girlfriend or girl friend?)
I do hope that I see him at yoga again... or maybe out when I'm a bit less oblivous to the world.
Set up: Worked all day then taught a trumpet lesson, dressed all in black, went to Kowalski's in Uptown to get some groceries and a deli dinner (as I was not about to cook last night).
So, while I was shopping I met up with Kevin from my 6 weeks of yoga classes (that ended nearly a month ago). He stopped me and called me by name, and while I was busy looking dumbfounded (because I find him quite attractive and wasn't really expecting to run into anyone I knew there) he reminded me of his name. We chatted about holidays and such things for 2 or 3 minutes (more than we ever talked at yoga)... during this conversation he touched my arm twice and asked me if I was a family man or if I was single. Lots of eye contact, smiles, etc. And what do I do? I just end the conversation with, "maybe I'll see you back at yoga sometime."
I get home and start eating my meat loaf and green beans and it hits me *bam* like a truck. Have I separated myself from the gays so much that I can't detect when someone might be flirting with me? I should have asked for Kevin's number... we should have gone out for a drink... we should have found our way to the restroom and fucked (riiight...) I should have at least asked him about the girls and guy that he came to yoga with (girlfriend or girl friend?)
I do hope that I see him at yoga again... or maybe out when I'm a bit less oblivous to the world.