Are they forbidding you guys to be friends? Cuz if they're still letting you be friends, I would just continue being friends. Relationships will stand the test of time if they are built on friendship. Ask God to change his parents' minds if it's his will for you guys to be together. Pour out your heart to God He wants to hear it from you. I stand to witness he will answer you.
Isaiah 65:24 Before they call I will answer; while they are still speaking I will hear.
Ali: Here’s my penny thought for you from my not so great sucess with relationships. With a family that is not favorable to you and him dating, they may not see how much of a sweetheart you are. Just continue to treat them nice and by your actions and respecting their decision, you’ll show them that you respect them. If they know you fairly well, then they may see things in this guy that could be a bad mix of personalities between you two and are trying to protect you from a heartache. The best solution is just prayer for the family to allow you two to be more than just friends or that God would take the desire away and I’ll pray for it too. God bless you and see you tonight. God bless you.
It sounds like you've got some good advice here, and I have to agree with what they're saying. If God wants you two to work out, it will. I know that sometimes it can be hard for teens to understand that ("but everyone else has a boyfriend; why can't I?") but as Christians, we need to lean every aspect of ourselves on God - not just the ones we "trust" Him with. Maintain your friendship with whomever this is, showing his parents that you are a good person but also that you respect them by not trying to pursue a relationship when they've said they didn't want the two of you to. I can guarantee that one of the best ways to change people's minds is by proving you deserve their trust.
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Isaiah 65:24
Before they call I will answer; while they are still speaking I will hear.
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Here’s my penny thought for you from my not so great sucess with relationships. With a family that is not favorable to you and him dating, they may not see how much of a sweetheart you are. Just continue to treat them nice and by your actions and respecting their decision, you’ll show them that you respect them. If they know you fairly well, then they may see things in this guy that could be a bad mix of personalities between you two and are trying to protect you from a heartache. The best solution is just prayer for the family to allow you two to be more than just friends or that God would take the desire away and I’ll pray for it too. God bless you and see you tonight. God bless you.
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It sounds like you've got some good advice here, and I have to agree with what they're saying. If God wants you two to work out, it will. I know that sometimes it can be hard for teens to understand that ("but everyone else has a boyfriend; why can't I?") but as Christians, we need to lean every aspect of ourselves on God - not just the ones we "trust" Him with. Maintain your friendship with whomever this is, showing his parents that you are a good person but also that you respect them by not trying to pursue a relationship when they've said they didn't want the two of you to. I can guarantee that one of the best ways to change people's minds is by proving you deserve their trust.
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