Aug 06, 2009 15:32
This is the only place i can write about this and vent without feeling like someones viewing my status update etc... and though I write infrequently in here now its a home away from home.
This past weekend I went to cape cod with two girls I had in my poetry class. Maggie, one of the girls, has become a close friend and she is an absolute sweetheart. Donna on the other hand was never really close with me and we only hung out once before she planned this trip to go to the cape.
I have always given girls that seem more pretty than smart the benefit of the doubt but maybe I extended myself too far with this one.
She is young, but to me that is no excuse for behavior, its not like she is sixteen anymore the girl is 21 years old.
The short version is I will no longer continue to speak to this girl. Anyone that knows me knows that once we have a serious conversation I will be there for you... but there are ways to take my kindness for weakness and this girl really thinks underneath it all that she is better than everyone.
It is totally apparent to me now... and Mags is so sweet but I don't think she always sees a persons true colors and she has a class with this girl next semester so she has no choice but to be friendly.
The short list of what this chick did was this, she was condescending, bratty, bitchy (two different b words), crazy, rude, arrogant, insulting, the list goes on and on.
I don't have time for people like this... Maggie wants to say "well shes young" I dont care, ( at her age I was not like that) what she did was inexcusable, she put us all in a terrifying situation basically cause she didnt listen to me that the check engine light that came on her car was just a messed up sensor... than she proceeded to ruin her car by putting too much oil in it and blamed me basically for it because she wanted ME to take HER on HER planned 5 hour trip there and back. Yeah I dont think so. For my close friends I would but they would understand I need time to get my car checked out before you just jump on the road.
Its hysterical, Maggie texted me today to ask me if I was uninvited now. Uninvited to what? I replied, then I remembered she is celebrating her 21 birthday ( god I almost said sweet sixteen)... this saturday. Please... I already uninvited myself but its obvious she is being 5 years old cause she didnt text me about the party, but its of no matter to me to try and have a convo with her especially about what happened would be like ripping my eyelashes out one at a time. I dont want to spend another minute in a room with that girl let alone hours.
The last time I had this much drama in my life was when I was friends with Mary. Yeah ... no thanks.
I needed to vent about this somewhere. I havent dealt with this much stupidity since high school and this is why I only keep smart women as friends... because all I see from this over lip glossed girls ( with some exceptional exceptions) is enough brat and bitch to let the wind whistle through their ears cause theres no fuckin room for an iota of intelligent thought.
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