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1) I hate how much time and mental energy i have put into contingency plans around traveling down to FL because stepmother. I hate how much sleep I've lost in juggling flights around because nothing is simple
2) I eventually chose to send As noted earlier I will be gone from Florida by Wednesday late afternoon; it is your choice whether you schedule your cousins for the time after that.
If you prefer I visit Tues to Thurs I can do that instead if I hear by 7 tonight.
(Above mentioned in voicemail; texts to your phone are bouncing.)
because bothering to mention the reality of just how much time and energy i spent (including being able to commit to nothing in december because i kept waiting on what week i'd be gone) attempting to accommodate her ...is pointless.
The story in her head is that I deliberately put my flights when her cousins would be there, and forced her to cancel them.
3) It's only another month before I could fly down if I don't fly down tomorrow. Well, somewhat longer in that Uncle is looking at Feb 10.
4) I srsly do not want to go.
5) also I get really wiggy about stacking trips. I can't shake that if I hadn't stacked trips so closely I would have seen Mom between Arizona and Arisia and noticed a problem.
6) that I'm going to this effort to see Dad and couldn't get my ass out onto the road to drive to wheaton is another whole hill of beans.
7) I think I'd kinda rather fly Tues anyway, but I don't trust that I'll do much that needs to get done tomorrow if I do. Or perhaps I can. Fsck. I do not expect to get an answer from Stepmother, and it's not like I can reach Dad or anybody down there.
This whole situation is so fscked up.
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2) I eventually chose to send As noted earlier I will be gone from Florida by Wednesday late afternoon; it is your choice whether you schedule your cousins for the time after that.
If you prefer I visit Tues to Thurs I can do that instead if I hear by 7 tonight.
(Above mentioned in voicemail; texts to your phone are bouncing.)
because bothering to mention the reality of just how much time and energy i spent (including being able to commit to nothing in december because i kept waiting on what week i'd be gone) attempting to accommodate her ...is pointless.
The story in her head is that I deliberately put my flights when her cousins would be there, and forced her to cancel them.
3) It's only another month before I could fly down if I don't fly down tomorrow. Well, somewhat longer in that Uncle is looking at Feb 10.
4) I srsly do not want to go.
5) also I get really wiggy about stacking trips. I can't shake that if I hadn't stacked trips so closely I would have seen Mom between Arizona and Arisia and noticed a problem.
6) that I'm going to this effort to see Dad and couldn't get my ass out onto the road to drive to wheaton is another whole hill of beans.
7) I think I'd kinda rather fly Tues anyway, but I don't trust that I'll do much that needs to get done tomorrow if I do. Or perhaps I can. Fsck. I do not expect to get an answer from Stepmother, and it's not like I can reach Dad or anybody down there.
This whole situation is so fscked up.
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comments there using OpenID, or here is okay too.