Apr 15, 2004 21:42
There are times in life, when situations get on top of all of us. Situations present themselves and we're forced to act. We deal with it, and you get on with life.
The particular situation that I speak of though... That is the vexing part. Things happen and people change, you sit down and think about things and you realise that it's yet happened again.
You said it. I said it. We all said it.
We've all said things to our friends (or maybe just associates) that we know we really shouldn't...but we do it anyway. I gave a so called friend of mine quite a serve last night...I said some things to her because bottom line is that she really needs to grow up. Her levels of immaturity are astonishingly breathtaking, so in that aspect I suppose my saying some things to her was only a matter of time.
For myself personally, in the last two years my life and my growth as a person has progressed more than I had anticipated. I say that, and yet I'm still barely 21.
The person I speak of is 27 years old...And from what I can see with absolutely no hope of changing, whatsoever. The desire to change comes from within, and knowing this person it's not hard to see that she clearly does not give herself that much thought. Probably because it's all just too hard. I am puzzled by this, because it does make me wonder what it is in life that she truly values.
I am now leaving this alleged friendship behind me. I've had enough, things are moving on for the better.
As I've said, the ball is in her court.
Ryan