ok you guys

[voodoovixen]

listen up. bambi delinquent is my friend. not just any friend, this is my GIRL. we have been friends for at least 4 years now. no matter what happened, we always found eachother again. us southern gals gotta stick together, and i know i can always depend on her

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[voodoovixen]

i know that some girls are thin because they just are...but why focus on them? why would i have a problem with naturally thin girls? sure i don't drool over em, but if that's the way they are then who i am to treat them differently? i would think that people would know by not trying to analyze what i say so deeply that when i do refer to thin girls, it's those that carry the obsession of that image, and are the ones that have been influenced by the media. and i'm sorry honey, but i'm in college right now and 90% of these girls DO have an obsession with their image and are influenced, that is no exaggeration, and i go to an all women's college.

but the difference is, you're a lot smarter than them, from what you're saying, you don't look at fashion magazines, and i know that you have a better head on your shoulder than the dumb asses here. but, i don't argue with anyone who says most thin girls have a problem, because it's TRUE. and this is unfortunate, but many are obsessed with not having an ounce of fat land on their bodies. i get to hear the conversations everyday. and sure this is a small population of all the women of the world, but it's also a large representation of women, as they come from all different places.

and yes many of these girls, though not curvy, are beautiful in their own way. BUT it still makes me feel more than good to have friends that are proud of SHAPE and don't complain about what they eat and just don't give a fuck! varla, fetish magazines, and rockabilly culture are more than full of thin women, so i have no idea what you mean there. it may sound like people are hypocritical or whatever, but really truly, in NORMAL bread n butter society, thin IS in, and yes this does influence many thin (and not thin) girls. corruption from the media is not an uncommon thing for us stupid human beings, so i don't know why you think that's such an overexaggeration (i get to see it here everyday in the worst forms and ranging in even more topics besides image, but race, class, gender etc..., people are ignorant!). i know preference exists and is the key to many people's opinions. but many of their preferences are still influenced by another's, as much as they might feel comfortable and confident in this preference, it's true.
so, i don't understand what you're getting to? i mean are you trying to teach me something? because i know where you're coming from and i understand your opinion and appreciate it...but unfortunately, unlike us a and a few others, not every person out there can appreciate the curvy, the thin, the fat, the athletic, etc. body...it's the truth of the matter

[corinfalls]

well i never said that MOST girls dont have a problem.. but who says that its not a problem to influence girls to look like your friend? while i think shes beautiful, i know that i dont really care to look like her.. and thats fine.. i dont care to look like most people i see.. but maybe some *weak minded* girl does.. the same kind of weak minded girl that would think that they need to look like a runway model because theyve been told all their lives that its how *women should look*.. i mean.. isnt it just as bad? thats what im saying.. it doesnt matter if its THIN, FAT, or CURVY.. saying that women should look one way is just as bad as saying that a woman should look a DIFFERENT one way.. do you see what im saying?

i only brought up that i usually like thin women as an example of how people can have differening preferences.. NOT to say thats how women should look.. because my whole point is that its damaging to say that a woman should look one way..

and to clarify, i didnt say this to make you change your mind, or change YOUR journal, just to bring it up.. that its always fine to say everyone should be curvy but its never fine to say everyone should be muscular or thin.. its a strange situation... if telling a woman that she has to look thin is bad, then telling a woman she has to look curvy is just as bad.

[voodoovixen]

who am i influencing? please, let me know because i don't see anyone paying such close attention but you.
ive seen what you've been saying the entire time because you've just repeated it over and over.
i really really wish that every single girl in the WORLD could read my entry because my friend is HEALTHY and NATURAL and yes it would be nice for all girls to be able to see that. let it influence their weak minds, then maybe girls wouldn't be sickly because they would be HEALTHY.

now, if you have no other points but the ones we've been repeating to each other, let's stop

[corinfalls]

no youre obviously not seeing my point.. im not saying YOURE influencing anyone, im saying youre being hypocritical by saying that women have to look one way to be a real woman but if anyone says the say thing about a different type of look its DAMAGING.. if theyre damaging then so are you.

and as MUCH as im repeating myself.. so are you. obviously you will never see my point (i was an idiot to try to express my point of view)

and you can say your friend is healthy all you want.. because im sure SHE is.. but how many women get implants (veerrrryyy fucking unhealthy) because theyre told that you need large breasts to be sexy?

im sick of being insulted by you, so you dont have to worry, this is the last time ill express my thoughts anywhere around you

[voodoovixen]

hmmm well i would think that you would know that saying women should look one way, and women HAVE to look one way are two different things. who said any other 'look' is damaging? women who starve and over exercise when they don't need it, and don't allow their bodies to develop are damaging, is that too hard too understand? but maybe it is hard; seeing as how you said 'i just ate two bowls of frosted flakes and a mochi. punch me.' in your journal, this psuedo-feminist argument is now pointless.
i will be happy to talk about my friend being healthy, what does breast implants have to do with it? breast implants are not natural which is what i've been emphasizing all along, that includes natural breasts...but oh no, i've repeated myself again so that you can see what i'm talking about. i'm sorry that you got so worked up that you had to feel sick, but thank you for ending this ridiculous conversation which i still don't understand why it started from this sort of entry out of ALL of them...anyway...

[corinfalls]

well now im a liar because i am commenting...

i said that about the frosted flakes and mochi because i felt fucking bloated and horrible.. its too much sugar.. it makes my fucking heart race.. it was like 2 am and i had to sleep.. and if you must know i have a lot of trouble sleeping and i am constantly worrying about my heart and the racing scares me.. A LOT.you shouldnt comment about something personal like that without knowing the facts

and you didnt make me feel sick before.. you made me feel sad.. and now im MORE sad because you brought up a personal situation (taken from a semi private forum) and put it into your public journal.. i didnt really intend the whole world to know about my fucking heart OR my fucking eating habits which is none of anyones business if i dont have them on my list. and i do NOT appreciate you insinuating ANYTHING about me here.

and implants have something to do with it because you didnt say being natural was how a women should look, but being CURVY was.. thats where implants come in.. youre the kind of person that sees someone who is thin and assumes she has an eating disorder or excercises too much.. and thats just sad.. and you still dont understand me. and i cant care anymore because i cant care.. i mean, if i continue caring.. youll probably go even LOWER and bring more personal things into your public journal which would severely upset me

[voodoovixen]

ok i mustve caught you during an emotional time because you are really really trying to make something out of nothing. and this is not to insult you, but you and i know that no one cares and is going to judge you by your heart or sugar problems. half the people on my friends list arent even gonna read this shit.
i have a ton of thin friends, and they don't have problems, so obviously i don't think that way, if i did, i would go nuts considering how many thin people i see everyday. you didn't notice me agreeing with you earlier that there are all women of different types and they are all beautiful? you broke it down earlier yourself, the small tits and hipbones are your preference, curvy is my preference, and since it's my journal i can use such strong words as SHOULD. and?
so calm the fuck down.

[corinfalls]

i was calm until i felt attacked.. no thats a lie.. i was pretty much attacked from the start.. i was calm until my personal laundry was aired.. ill be calm again