It's time to admit to myself the things I already knew were true long ago. I loved Matt, but when I started falling for Jenn and Jay at the same time, shortly after getting engaged, I knew that I wasn't supposed to marry him. Someone who is TRULY happy with what they have rarely has a reason to desire love or fall for someone else. I've been this ( Read more... )

This has been bothering me ever since I discussed it, niggling at the back of my mind like an itch on the roof of my mouth. Time to stop tonguing it - I really need to think about this. How can you love someone or something without being attached to it? In my mind, they are almost one and the same thing.....this has never felt, to me, to be ( Read more... )