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mouth3 September 5 2007, 16:13:46 UTC


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vivacious_dan September 5 2007, 16:25:52 UTC
BE NICE TO APPLICANTS

I like it already :D People were so unbelievably harsh to me on oddly cutie..sheesh! Did you get in? Out of all my replies so far, I've only gotten one yes. Yikes. I'll apply to this community as soon as I have time to. Thanks for the link! I loved your application to oddly cutie btw :) Glad to know not everyone hates my personality XD

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mouth3 September 5 2007, 16:40:28 UTC
i think i've gotten more nos than yesses. i didn't realize how much these people like to say no. i really like not all beauty. they're a good group.

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vivacious_dan September 5 2007, 16:55:06 UTC
Hi ^^ I just read through both of our threads on oddly cutie. You have 5 no's and 5 yes's so you're tied (Good luck!). Believe it or not, I have 8 no's and 1 yes. I have a real problem with how fucking trifling and fickle people are on oddly cutie. If you read through my thread, I have two people who said no because they think I am too kind/sweet/nice..gee, didn't realize that was a bad thing. I have a person who said no because I like Tila (they said it was an automatic no) although they liked the rest of my app. Gtfo plz. I have a person who said no who thinks I'm interesting but I'm just not odd. Splitting hairs, anyone? I have a response that says the only thing that's odd about me is that I'm oddly boring. Really, is it necessary to insult me? I could go on and on. I can't believe how bitchy the group seems.

Just because I replied to responses in my app thread some people got an attitude..I'm sorry, but I thought the rules in the info said that was okay? I've gotten responses saying my app was too long and boring (which it WAS long, so I can at least see that). Then I got a reply saying it was too short (HUH?). At least two of the no's today were nice. One girl said I was really pretty and another girl said she doesn't understand why everyone is jumping down my throat when I shared my life experiences and that she thought it was important that I backed my opinion up. Then, I got one yes (finally!). What did you think about my app? Am I missing something? :/

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vivacious_dan September 5 2007, 16:56:03 UTC
I remember when I applied to long term love in 2005 and got in. Out of 47 replies, I got 47 yes's. Not one no. And that's not the easiest group to get into. I've never seen such a harsh, bitchy ratings comm in my life.

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vivacious_dan September 5 2007, 17:00:26 UTC
I also am surprised by the amount of people who said I am bland/boring/there's nothing that stands out about me. I beg to differ. I don't know many people in real life who are bipolar, who have social anxiety, who have very few friends, who have had problems with depression and suicide attempts, who are obsessed with jpop/anime/manga and actually know series that aren't shown on tv, who are childfree AND petfree. But I didn't really get to go into any of that on the app since there isn't a place for it *sigh* I would be lying if I said that after spending 2 hours on the app, showing a pic of my tattoo, grayscaling and contrasting and re-sizing my pictures, typing up my fucking life story and proofreading the damn app over and over that I'm not hurt by all the incredible negativity and harshness. Oh well :(

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mouth3 September 5 2007, 17:03:59 UTC
i like it. i really think there is a low self worth in that community so they get off on insulting others. i've never understood it. and it's looking like i never will. really, please try out for the other community i posted to you. it's a nice change of pace. they're honest with their opinions but they value effort and honesty. i think you'll get in hands down and really enjoy it.

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mouth3 September 5 2007, 17:04:35 UTC
also, fuck 'em.

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vivacious_dan September 5 2007, 17:17:21 UTC
also, fuck 'em.

LOL YES. That's what my bf's been saying. I think he was kind of concerned by how down I was saying about my app being shat all over. I'll apply to the comm hopefully tonight. I'm at work now so I know I wouldn't be able to concentrate on it. I went to the info for the comm and it seems really cool :) Looks like it will be a nice change of pace!

i really think there is a low self worth in that community so they get off on insulting others.

My bf also said this. Thanks for all the kind words :) I'm glad there are at least a few people who liked my app!

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vivacious_dan September 5 2007, 17:18:06 UTC
Oops. I think he was kind of concerned by how down I was sounding about my app being shat all over.

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