being nice is overrated
basically being NICE and SWEET will get you NOWHERE in life.
if you want something, you have to go for it, and not care about others reactions. unless of course you are causing pain or harm to someone, that's definitely something to take into consideration. but as far as other people's judgements and biases... they're nothing to take into consideration at all.
who cares if people don't like you. everyone doesn't have to LIKE everybody.
if only i could take these words and apply it to my own life. but i'm too much of a people pleaser, push over, and just too nice in general.
if you want something, you have to go for it, and not care about others reactions. unless of course you are causing pain or harm to someone, that's definitely something to take into consideration. but as far as other people's judgements and biases... they're nothing to take into consideration at all.
who cares if people don't like you. everyone doesn't have to LIKE everybody.
if only i could take these words and apply it to my own life. but i'm too much of a people pleaser, push over, and just too nice in general.