Nov 15, 2004 20:43
There are two guys that I work with that like me. My best friend and I work together and they are always asking her about me. She told them that is would never work out with me but didn't tell them why because she know's it's not her place to tell them that I'm a lesbian and there is no way I'd date them. One of them asked me what my big secret was and why it wouldn't work out (only not in those words). The guys at my work gossip alot more than the girls do. If I told one guy everyone would know, there are a few girls I could tell that wouldn't say anything. I normally wouldn't mind telling them but work is not the place for it. I really do not want to make anyone unconfortable and I don't want to be descriminated against because of it.I just don't know what to do or what to say. It's going to get out sooner or later I suppose. I just don't know what to do. Anyone have any advice?