Sister's Birthday ...
Well, I'm glad to say that my sister didn't loose ALL my respect. Me being obviously pissed last night sparked at least something in her. So today, she canceled the restaurant plans, ordered chinese food and sushi and invited all the friends to stay home and celebrate her birthday. So I helped set the table and afterwards washed all the dishes used. Consensus is great. One downfall was that I found out that she told all her friends that it's my fault that the restaurant was canceled. One of the least tactful friend called me a party-pooper. It kind of pissed me off but I didn't want to ruin the day and just walked away.
The night went real nice, lots of laughs and talks, so even though my sister started out sour about having to change plans, she was overall pleased. I'm just glad that not all is lost with her and she didn't turn into a completely selfish jerk.
I guess she still felt a little guilty because she suggested that I should go to Renaissance Fair tomorrow. She already went once so she offered to stay home with mom and for me and my brother in law to take the kids. Of course neither I nor my brother in law want to go with each other. I can't stand his guts... I dislike it even more when he is with kids, since he's a shit for a father and doesn't know how to deal with them without screaming all the time. I would have a hell of a time if I'd go with him. So since he refused, it'll be me and my sister going with her 3 kids. Won't be so bad. Will get to wear my Renaissance dress that I purchase when I first went to a Fair. Yey!! Hope it's not too huge on me now. We'll see.
As a final thought. This whole situation with my sister and her birthday just fully reinforced my desire to leave. When I was still at 98% sure that I'm moving. The little bit insecurity for the move was left for my mom's health and the worry about my sister dealing with it. Now thought, I've had my last straw and I'm moving a 100%.
My dear D... my dear Sir... come and get me in 2 weeks!
The night went real nice, lots of laughs and talks, so even though my sister started out sour about having to change plans, she was overall pleased. I'm just glad that not all is lost with her and she didn't turn into a completely selfish jerk.
I guess she still felt a little guilty because she suggested that I should go to Renaissance Fair tomorrow. She already went once so she offered to stay home with mom and for me and my brother in law to take the kids. Of course neither I nor my brother in law want to go with each other. I can't stand his guts... I dislike it even more when he is with kids, since he's a shit for a father and doesn't know how to deal with them without screaming all the time. I would have a hell of a time if I'd go with him. So since he refused, it'll be me and my sister going with her 3 kids. Won't be so bad. Will get to wear my Renaissance dress that I purchase when I first went to a Fair. Yey!! Hope it's not too huge on me now. We'll see.
As a final thought. This whole situation with my sister and her birthday just fully reinforced my desire to leave. When I was still at 98% sure that I'm moving. The little bit insecurity for the move was left for my mom's health and the worry about my sister dealing with it. Now thought, I've had my last straw and I'm moving a 100%.
My dear D... my dear Sir... come and get me in 2 weeks!