Jun 15, 2010 21:57
Okay, so the reason why I write this blog is because of a very special friend. Last week we had a conversation, and that inspired me to write this blog.
So, this very special friend, is my best male friend yes. He will stay in my heart forever, and I will tell you why. He is just amazing! But thats not all. Of course not. He is sweet, cute, very kind, funny, crazy, weird, obviously, loudly, suddenly, very random, pokemon fanboy, foreign(ofcource this doesn't matter, but I love different cultures.), and most of all, caring. He cares alot about me. And ofcourse I care alot about him. He does everything to make me happy when I'm sad. And mostly yes, he can cheer me up. I could cry forever for this boy. And if he would be next to my side, it would just be perfect. I want to cry on his shoulders so badly.
Okay, so what I want to say is, real friends are forever. The word friend is very special to me. When I have a friend, he/she means ALOT to me. You aren't friends just for nothing or just to hang out with eachother, right? I think those ''friends' are lame. Real friends will help you, in whatever situation you are. Real friends really care about eachother. So I think it's lame when you have friends for just a few years and then dump them. You could really notice when you are best friends with eachother. Best friends will fight for eachother. Especially in hard times. Not just hard times for one of the friends, but for both/all of them. It could happen that the friendship has a downside some times. But real friends will fight for eachother, fighting for staying friends. Not like : 'Oh, you're acting stupid now. Don't be my friend again.'
A real friend won't ever do that. They will fight, and be best friends again. No matter how much that happens.
But also as I said earlyer, when one of the friends had trouble. Some people say: 'poor kid, let me go. I don't want to hear you sad story's anymore, stop being pathetic.'
Thats not the line of a real friend. Agree?
A real friend would try to help you out. Take you home when you ran away, let you cry on their shoulders, try to find some solutions, trying to cheer you up, make you laugh, making you feel better again, trying to solve every problem with you, the small and the big ones, et cetera.
This is what I think of a real friend.
I also think that a best friend is more precious than a lover. Friends are forever, and lovers could break up. And when you break up, you can always just stay friends. I also said to my friend: 'Even if I had a boyfriend, I would love you more.' Of course I will love my boyfriend alot. But when we have bad times, I can always go to friends. because they will support me. And just like a friend, I will fight to have my boyfriend loving me alot again.
Friendship is love. Friendship consist out of alot of things.
Friendship is love, hope, peace, respect, fear, frightening, anger, longings, beautiful, sad, caring, and alot more that everyone can fill in themselves.
heh, actually I imaged this blog larger. I want to make it larger another time, but I'm tired and inspirationless now. =.=
This is it for now, So please people. Treat your friends with respect, love, and hope. Forever.