Reality
He made out with her. There's no confusion. It's a fact. What is he playing at? Why does he tell me he wants me to come home if he's going to be doing this? The thing is....I'm not hurt. I understand the situation perfectly. I made it this way on purpose, but I had no idea it was actually going to materialize. We would have no titles or obligations to each other.... I would leave and move on with my life...close the door on the old. He called me three days after I left asking me when I was coming home. That screwed up everything for me, because I can't close the door when he's standing in it.