there is so much that has happened.
where do I begin?
the big news if it hasn't been made clear. I left Matt, the details are still rather grey and there is still a lot of unresolved issues between us.. So I am hoping we can both figure things out.
Spending our first NYE apart after 6 years was really rough. Plus getting through the night was... difficult... and thankfully I had really great friends to help me through it. These last couple of weeks have got me thinking a lot and I still need to do a lot of soul searching before the weekend.
Hoping that the emotional toll this is taking on the both of us will find some resolution. Now that the elephant in the room has been addressed. Next step is working on everything else.
Here is what my plan is.
Be Happy, Be patient and remember to love myself (new mantra)
_______________
Settle the car
Starting & Finish Classes with a good average
Starting Ballet & Belly Dancing
Working out & Meditation again
Spending more time with my family
Skydiving for Hilly & my 27th in May
(Once I start waitressing again)
Save for Business, Re-invest in stocks
Save for the Caribean (Thanksgiving 2011)
Save for other travel (Fall '11 or Spring '12)
Save for other great investments
Look into Piano lesson (save for piano)
the big news if it hasn't been made clear. I left Matt, the details are still rather grey and there is still a lot of unresolved issues between us.. So I am hoping we can both figure things out.
Spending our first NYE apart after 6 years was really rough. Plus getting through the night was... difficult... and thankfully I had really great friends to help me through it. These last couple of weeks have got me thinking a lot and I still need to do a lot of soul searching before the weekend.
Hoping that the emotional toll this is taking on the both of us will find some resolution. Now that the elephant in the room has been addressed. Next step is working on everything else.
Here is what my plan is.
Be Happy, Be patient and remember to love myself (new mantra)
_______________
Settle the car
Starting & Finish Classes with a good average
Starting Ballet & Belly Dancing
Working out & Meditation again
Spending more time with my family
Skydiving for Hilly & my 27th in May
(Once I start waitressing again)
Save for Business, Re-invest in stocks
Save for the Caribean (Thanksgiving 2011)
Save for other travel (Fall '11 or Spring '12)
Save for other great investments
Look into Piano lesson (save for piano)