Re: PerfectionrockettestarNovember 10 2004, 23:58:38 UTC
My comment: http://www.livejournal.com/users/victicious/36746.html?thread=155274#t155274 So with all that said- (not that you are nessarily saying vic and I are perfect for each other...but you did bring it up so that gives me reason to rant ) Vic and I are not perfect for each other, we are not soul mates. We are really good close friends, but it is not romantic. Its ridiculous to say just because he is a man and I am a woman, and we fit together as friends that we are perfect for each other just because we are of the opposite sex. Megan and I fit perfectly together, but no one would say we should marry each other...its the same thing with Vic and I. Of course it is a different because man/woman friendships are different than woman/woman relationships, but still. For there to be true 'romantic' love, there must be attraction there (on all levels), there must be chemistry there on both sides. Attraction is one thing I can't explain, and that is the mysterious part of true love to me. Another example, Matt and I have been super close friends who adore each other for years and years but we have never remotly had a crush on each other since 7th grade.
http://www.livejournal.com/users/victicious/36746.html?thread=155274#t155274
So with all that said-
(not that you are nessarily saying vic and I are perfect for each other...but you did bring it up so that gives me reason to rant )
Vic and I are not perfect for each other, we are not soul mates. We are really good close friends, but it is not romantic. Its ridiculous to say just because he is a man and I am a woman, and we fit together as friends that we are perfect for each other just because we are of the opposite sex. Megan and I fit perfectly together, but no one would say we should marry each other...its the same thing with Vic and I. Of course it is a different because man/woman friendships are different than woman/woman relationships, but still. For there to be true 'romantic' love, there must be attraction there (on all levels), there must be chemistry there on both sides. Attraction is one thing I can't explain, and that is the mysterious part of true love to me. Another example, Matt and I have been super close friends who adore each other for years and years but we have never remotly had a crush on each other since 7th grade.
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