I agree and we have talked about it several times, usually ending in an argument. I've told him several times that if it was the other way around and HE was on a nude site I would be flattered and proud that so many people thought that MY man was a hotty! But he just doesn't see my side of it.
And yes, that is why I haven't been on SG too much lately. He gets angry with me every time that I go to the site. Even if I'm not looking at the girls, just updating my journal and checking out my friend's journals and such.
He said that I am too preoccupied with it and I'm letting it take up too much of my time. So I asked him what the difference was if I spent a couple hours on SG a day and him spending SEVERAL hours a day on 2-3 3D animation sites and then spending more hours on creating animation. He said that he is learning something and that he might make a career out of what HE is doing.
I just don't know what to tell him any more...I told him that if he REALLY wanted me to leave the site that I would, but then it would cause me to wonder about our relationship and if we should really be together forever if he made me quit doing something that I truly enjoyed doing and I wasn't hurting anybody by doing it, you know? So I don't know...
And yes, that is why I haven't been on SG too much lately. He gets angry with me every time that I go to the site. Even if I'm not looking at the girls, just updating my journal and checking out my friend's journals and such.
He said that I am too preoccupied with it and I'm letting it take up too much of my time. So I asked him what the difference was if I spent a couple hours on SG a day and him spending SEVERAL hours a day on 2-3 3D animation sites and then spending more hours on creating animation. He said that he is learning something and that he might make a career out of what HE is doing.
I just don't know what to tell him any more...I told him that if he REALLY wanted me to leave the site that I would, but then it would cause me to wonder about our relationship and if we should really be together forever if he made me quit doing something that I truly enjoyed doing and I wasn't hurting anybody by doing it, you know? So I don't know...
~Cinder~
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