I have a dilemma, Should I Stay Or Should I Go
Ok here's something I think all women can relate to and hopefully give me some insight on whether I SHOULD STAY OR GO. I have been with the same guy for 3 yrs in July, in these 3 years I had a job until recently(about 9 months now) and he's ignoring me except in the bedroom. I'm the one who has to ask for a kiss, I'm the one who has to make the first move and when it comes to doing something I WANNA DO, he makes up some excuse to why we won't do it, but if it was something he wants to do, he'll jump right to it with no hesitation. So, with that in mind, here's the deal, I have tried talking to him about it, and he just walks away. I have tried writing to him about it and he tells me he;s not happy with the letter and we never talk about it afterwards, he won't talk until I'm drowning in my tears. We don't scream and argue at each other and we have no communication except through letters, in his letters he accuses me of sleeping 12 hours and not trying to find a job (which I am), and nothing gets done about any of our problems. In short terms, he's being a self-centered, egotistical asshole and I'm DONE! So what should I do, Should I stay or go, and where will I go with no job and no money? PLEASE HELP ME DECIDE. Thanks for reading this and I hope I get some answers, I'm going crazy.