ready to cry
Dan finally told his parents that he's moving in here rather than me moving in with his parents. I didn't think there was any way on earth that it could possibly go as bad as he said it would.
But it did.
His dad said that he was basically leaving his family behind. His parents said that if he moved in here they wouldn't pay for his school for next year, they would take his car, and quite possibly not even come to the wedding.
I'm freaking out. How are we going to pay for all of these things that we thought were covered? We are talking thousands of dollars in unforeseen expenses. I don't have that much saved up. Top that off with the fact that I'm quite certain if they don't come to the wedding they aren't going to help pay for it, so I have to somehow come up with thousands of dollars in the next 7 days, because my parents certainly can't cover it. I'm devestated and completely sick about it.
How can they be that totally heartless? How can they basically flat out tell him that he has to decide between them and me?
And I can't just move in there, because that would send the signal that if they simply stomp around and throw a fit we will give in, and I can't live like that.
I have no idea what to do. I'm totally sick over it.
But it did.
His dad said that he was basically leaving his family behind. His parents said that if he moved in here they wouldn't pay for his school for next year, they would take his car, and quite possibly not even come to the wedding.
I'm freaking out. How are we going to pay for all of these things that we thought were covered? We are talking thousands of dollars in unforeseen expenses. I don't have that much saved up. Top that off with the fact that I'm quite certain if they don't come to the wedding they aren't going to help pay for it, so I have to somehow come up with thousands of dollars in the next 7 days, because my parents certainly can't cover it. I'm devestated and completely sick about it.
How can they be that totally heartless? How can they basically flat out tell him that he has to decide between them and me?
And I can't just move in there, because that would send the signal that if they simply stomp around and throw a fit we will give in, and I can't live like that.
I have no idea what to do. I'm totally sick over it.