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So this weekend was fairly nice but also quiet.
Yesterday I relaxed most of the day trying to have my back recover enough. Originally I was going to go to Josephs but with my back a mess I didn't want to go across town and possibly get stuck there. At some point it felt good enough that I felt I could drive and I went to visit Layla the very nice lady wife of a friend of mine. She showed me how to make pretzels and we watched Night at the museum. About half way through the film Eric got home so we chatted for a while and had pretzels for dinner. I must say that it was a very wonderful experience. Layla is very sweet and nice and Eric is bouncy (I can't think of another word to describe him right now), his wife is going to deliver a baby in about a month. It was very cute watching them together. After we finished watching the movie they introduced me to something called Katamari. It is a very disturbing game.
After I left Layla and Eric's home I went to Chris's and watched his game. Unfortunately I didn't see much since I quickly fell asleep on Wolfy's shoulder. I woke up at 4am with a pillow under me and a blanket. Apparently I was too cute to wake up and send home. Chris was still up so I woke up enough to head out. For a while he was going to follow me home so he was sure I would get there safe but then couldn't find his keys so he trusted me not to have an accident knowing that Orion was at home and would eventually notice my absense.
Today was a very quiet day. I spent a few hours with Orion and then he went off to do stuff at his home. I lazzed around till about 4:30 when I got ready to run errands. I got into the pharmacy in time to pick up my prescriptions but I didn't get to the eye doctors or Ulta in time for the other two errands. Oh well... mady an appointment at Ulta for tuesday and I am going to have to call the optomologist anyways.
Orion and I had a talk this morning and I think I am starting to understand his understanding of relationships. He says that relationships are based on three things.... Intimacy, Lust, commitment.
Commitment + Lust + Intimacy = long term relationship
commitment + Intimacy = Close friend
Intimacy + Lust = one night stand or play partner
I am not sure what Commitment + Lust would do.
He states that if I go between an interaction with a friend that is commitment + intimacy to one that is intimacy + lust and then back then there is no problem but if there is also commitment then there are problems because he has to trust this other person as well.
He understands that I am commited to the people in the family... I must remember to get the list of family from Syd and give it to Orion so he knows who are the people closest to my heart.
Anyways... Now I think I am going to work on my lions and watch smallville till it's time for sleep. Orion indicated he might want dinner together tonight but I really don't feel like driving more. Every so often my back decides it does not want to be moving :: shrugs ::
Yesterday I relaxed most of the day trying to have my back recover enough. Originally I was going to go to Josephs but with my back a mess I didn't want to go across town and possibly get stuck there. At some point it felt good enough that I felt I could drive and I went to visit Layla the very nice lady wife of a friend of mine. She showed me how to make pretzels and we watched Night at the museum. About half way through the film Eric got home so we chatted for a while and had pretzels for dinner. I must say that it was a very wonderful experience. Layla is very sweet and nice and Eric is bouncy (I can't think of another word to describe him right now), his wife is going to deliver a baby in about a month. It was very cute watching them together. After we finished watching the movie they introduced me to something called Katamari. It is a very disturbing game.
After I left Layla and Eric's home I went to Chris's and watched his game. Unfortunately I didn't see much since I quickly fell asleep on Wolfy's shoulder. I woke up at 4am with a pillow under me and a blanket. Apparently I was too cute to wake up and send home. Chris was still up so I woke up enough to head out. For a while he was going to follow me home so he was sure I would get there safe but then couldn't find his keys so he trusted me not to have an accident knowing that Orion was at home and would eventually notice my absense.
Today was a very quiet day. I spent a few hours with Orion and then he went off to do stuff at his home. I lazzed around till about 4:30 when I got ready to run errands. I got into the pharmacy in time to pick up my prescriptions but I didn't get to the eye doctors or Ulta in time for the other two errands. Oh well... mady an appointment at Ulta for tuesday and I am going to have to call the optomologist anyways.
Orion and I had a talk this morning and I think I am starting to understand his understanding of relationships. He says that relationships are based on three things.... Intimacy, Lust, commitment.
Commitment + Lust + Intimacy = long term relationship
commitment + Intimacy = Close friend
Intimacy + Lust = one night stand or play partner
I am not sure what Commitment + Lust would do.
He states that if I go between an interaction with a friend that is commitment + intimacy to one that is intimacy + lust and then back then there is no problem but if there is also commitment then there are problems because he has to trust this other person as well.
He understands that I am commited to the people in the family... I must remember to get the list of family from Syd and give it to Orion so he knows who are the people closest to my heart.
Anyways... Now I think I am going to work on my lions and watch smallville till it's time for sleep. Orion indicated he might want dinner together tonight but I really don't feel like driving more. Every so often my back decides it does not want to be moving :: shrugs ::