Nov 29, 2006 01:21
You know, my godmom is very much a hypocrite. She says God won't welcome my aunt into heaven, because she cusses like a sailor. Don't get my started on that. Religion isn't something I'm going to discuss. However, the hypocritical part is that fact that godmom has dated married men in the past. Casting stones and all that. She says that since sex wasn't involved it doesn't count. Right. Just dated them, knowing they were married, and her husband left her because he found a better option than their marriage. God. I love her, I do, but the hypocrisy is amazing. I'm a hypocrite, but I admit it straight off. I don't pretend I'm not. My godmom got defensive, and I'm of the opinion that it's because in her heart of hearts, she knows what she did was wrong. I mean, you don't have to have to exchange body fluids to commit the act, at least in my opinion. Just the act of dating someone that is very much married to someone else is wrong. For me personally, it's a matter of respect. If a man/woman isn't a free agent, then you don't touch them. If nothing else because of self-preservation. Eventually it'll end and you won't be the winner. Of course one of her married men's wfe packed thier lunches for the trips, so I'm not sure if that one counts. But he wasn't the only one that she did. I just don't get how she can say something about my aunt not getting into heaven when she's no perfect angel. We had a slight argument, and that's fine. Truly. I'm not going to apologize for saying that I think it's wrong to go off, dating married men. The ironic part of it is that she's the one that was my moral compass growing up.
ETA: At 3pm Wednesday, my godmom is still pouting at me, refusing to speak and glaring at me like I was Satan's spawn. Welcome to my world!
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