friends
So I have this friend, she is like, a cool fun person.
Problem? Her husband. They are like 15 years older than me and I think it really bothers him.
Aside from the fact he is very jealous and does not like us to leave the house when we hang out. It is annoying since I have two babies and almost never really go anywhere. I certainly am not out looking for naughty boys to play with us or anything. I have enough problems and don't need more stress. lol. ALSO lets not forget the guy gets wasted all the time and has old men all dirty and nasty saying rude shit to his 16 yr old daughter and he begs her for change so he can get beer because the old lady took the cash card.... nice eh?
Yeah, so we used to talk every day, texting mostly, she would say good morning and say hi when off work and then one night, we were downtown, chillin all innocent and havin wings and beer and she goes potty and the old man walks in. He does not seem drunk to me which is unusual, he is a heavy drinker. Alcoholic of sorts. He starts to yell at me about being a stupid little kid, livin in a ghetto and can't afford my stupid piece of shit babies and I act like I know everything and this and that. I walked out. He shouts, "oh can't handle the truth", and I wanted to pound him right in the defibrilator. Of course, there were cops outside and I was walking fast and muttering to myself in anger, I shout asshole and they thought I was talking to them, so they start to follow me. UGH~ So, things were shitty after that. I talked to the cops and went home, with my whole life of friendship with this person changed. She did not call me after that, for WEEKS, she totally quit texting me. I understand she has been with him for like 25 years, but, it made me feel like she was just accepting what he had done and as long as she didn't talk to me things would be fine. I am very bothered by this. Now we hooked up once after this and there were two other people there she had go, and she fucking ignored me the whole time. WTF?
Like I am a smart, fun, decent person to hang around and I was getting screwed here.
She later, after I left, texted saying it was good to see me. I choked. again, WTF?
it has been three months now and we have hardly talked. She started to text more after thanksgiving, and she has asked me to come over once. She tells me that he was wasted and does not remember what he said and how can she be mad at him when he doesn't remember and she couldn't have me being mad at him which is why she wasn't talking.... Now I feel at a loss, she came by today, it seemed odd. She has been texting more, but now, I kinda feel detached. I feel like I am done with the drama. It has not changed in 16 years, why would it now? So I am sad thinking that this wonderful and fun friendship I had is now diminished to aquaintance. Though on the other hand I have made 2 new friends, one lives by me and one is online who I now met in person and she likes me. Giggle*
What are you thinking?
Problem? Her husband. They are like 15 years older than me and I think it really bothers him.
Aside from the fact he is very jealous and does not like us to leave the house when we hang out. It is annoying since I have two babies and almost never really go anywhere. I certainly am not out looking for naughty boys to play with us or anything. I have enough problems and don't need more stress. lol. ALSO lets not forget the guy gets wasted all the time and has old men all dirty and nasty saying rude shit to his 16 yr old daughter and he begs her for change so he can get beer because the old lady took the cash card.... nice eh?
Yeah, so we used to talk every day, texting mostly, she would say good morning and say hi when off work and then one night, we were downtown, chillin all innocent and havin wings and beer and she goes potty and the old man walks in. He does not seem drunk to me which is unusual, he is a heavy drinker. Alcoholic of sorts. He starts to yell at me about being a stupid little kid, livin in a ghetto and can't afford my stupid piece of shit babies and I act like I know everything and this and that. I walked out. He shouts, "oh can't handle the truth", and I wanted to pound him right in the defibrilator. Of course, there were cops outside and I was walking fast and muttering to myself in anger, I shout asshole and they thought I was talking to them, so they start to follow me. UGH~ So, things were shitty after that. I talked to the cops and went home, with my whole life of friendship with this person changed. She did not call me after that, for WEEKS, she totally quit texting me. I understand she has been with him for like 25 years, but, it made me feel like she was just accepting what he had done and as long as she didn't talk to me things would be fine. I am very bothered by this. Now we hooked up once after this and there were two other people there she had go, and she fucking ignored me the whole time. WTF?
Like I am a smart, fun, decent person to hang around and I was getting screwed here.
She later, after I left, texted saying it was good to see me. I choked. again, WTF?
it has been three months now and we have hardly talked. She started to text more after thanksgiving, and she has asked me to come over once. She tells me that he was wasted and does not remember what he said and how can she be mad at him when he doesn't remember and she couldn't have me being mad at him which is why she wasn't talking.... Now I feel at a loss, she came by today, it seemed odd. She has been texting more, but now, I kinda feel detached. I feel like I am done with the drama. It has not changed in 16 years, why would it now? So I am sad thinking that this wonderful and fun friendship I had is now diminished to aquaintance. Though on the other hand I have made 2 new friends, one lives by me and one is online who I now met in person and she likes me. Giggle*
What are you thinking?