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It's actually really simple. I stopped hanging out with people who are drama queens MONTHS ago. I made some drastic changes about the people I choose to make time for. Honestly, I've never been happier. The stress in my life is cut in half, probably more.
I'm older now and I realize EVERYTHING is my choice. Everything from how I raise my kid, to what I do career wise to who I associate with. It is NOBODY'S business but mine. The people I consider my friends know that and respect that. They don't bring drama into my life and they don't involve me in theirs.
It's not even so much that I finally found great people (though I did) it's that I just don't have the time for immaturity and I'm MUCH quicker to just cut someone out of my life than deal with the bullshit they bring into it.
I am a person who is SO filled with love and energy, but I only share it with those who are deserving.
I'm older now and I realize EVERYTHING is my choice. Everything from how I raise my kid, to what I do career wise to who I associate with. It is NOBODY'S business but mine. The people I consider my friends know that and respect that. They don't bring drama into my life and they don't involve me in theirs.
It's not even so much that I finally found great people (though I did) it's that I just don't have the time for immaturity and I'm MUCH quicker to just cut someone out of my life than deal with the bullshit they bring into it.
I am a person who is SO filled with love and energy, but I only share it with those who are deserving.