Boys....sometimes a girl just needs one
I'm not sure if it's that the guy I'm dating is complicated and wasting my time, or if it's that it's all so simple I'm just over analyzing every thing.
How can I NOT be able to tell if it's simple or complicated?
Here's what I KNOW:
He says he likes me.
We have fun together.
He makes me laugh.
I've never met anyone else like him.
Yet, he's a wanderer. He travels. Haiti for months at a time, Jamaica, Canada. Wherever he wants to go he goes and sometimes he doesn't come back. He warned me that I may not see him for weeks at a time.
In a WAY that's good, cuz I won't get freaked out and run if he's not clingy and attatched....but he seems downright DEtatched. I don't think I like it.
I'm in a weird place. I love being single, I don't want those shackles...but I want the security of a man's arms and I want it more than once a month.
But we're just dating and we aren't even exclusive. Am I totally nuts to be worrying over this right now? I'm making a mountain out of an anthill but the side of me that's completely paranoid can't help but think he's telling me he's gone a lot to drive me away...
How can I NOT be able to tell if it's simple or complicated?
Here's what I KNOW:
He says he likes me.
We have fun together.
He makes me laugh.
I've never met anyone else like him.
Yet, he's a wanderer. He travels. Haiti for months at a time, Jamaica, Canada. Wherever he wants to go he goes and sometimes he doesn't come back. He warned me that I may not see him for weeks at a time.
In a WAY that's good, cuz I won't get freaked out and run if he's not clingy and attatched....but he seems downright DEtatched. I don't think I like it.
I'm in a weird place. I love being single, I don't want those shackles...but I want the security of a man's arms and I want it more than once a month.
But we're just dating and we aren't even exclusive. Am I totally nuts to be worrying over this right now? I'm making a mountain out of an anthill but the side of me that's completely paranoid can't help but think he's telling me he's gone a lot to drive me away...