Nov 25, 2003 10:41
I have realized that to be in a happy relationship and to be able to give your all to the other person, you first have to be happy with yourself. You have to know your strengths and emphasize them, and also to recognize your weaknesses and try to fix them or work around them. You have to find out who you are and what you want. You have to have some kind of order and peace in your life. I finally figured it out, but it might just be too late. That's how life is. And that is why everyday is a new day and I try to look at it that way. I still learn something new everyday, and I love it. I even learn the meaning of a new word in English everyday. hehehehe. I am happy in my own way, and I thank the people I love for that. You know who you are. You mean the world to me. I have learned to accept everyone for who they are, instead of judging them. It's hard, but I'm trying. I have learned to respect people's opinions and their decision regardless of how they might affect me, because if that is what makes them happy, then I am happy. I am trying to focus on today and not tomorrow. Life is too short and it will be gone before you know it...