A quick thought, after watching Orpheus again last night...
About a week ago
danielleleigh wrote a very interesting post about Wesley's body language, which can be read
here. So I was probably already primed by that post to notice that Wesley's body language in his scene alone with Willow in Orpheus was much more like his early Buffy S3/Angel S1 self than his more recent self: he had that awkward insecurity again. Subtle, but still there.
Also, much as I mock the fact that it seems possible to watch an episode of Law and Order at any hour of the day or night, I must admit that there's something compulsively watchable about the show.