Remember too Vash- this is day one. this is not set in stone yet. Believe me, I've seen this happen to people before- they think it's over- it's not. Don't give up on the two of you just yet. And don't let her do so either.
Have faith. Pray a lot to night to whom it may concern in yourlife.
people don't fall out of love in 2 days. something is up...definately. however, it's only been one day. people say things they don't mean all the time. give it time. have patience. try to work it out. don't give up yet. and i hope she reads this because the same thing applies to her.
I mean- weeks? days? before you guys got married? what is she feeling? is it that she's lonely? insecure?
you know what i mean? i mean, i am positive that relationships in much more unuseual situations than this have survived. the fact of the matter is that she married you. that's not easy or cheap to get out of...and if she wants to call it quits- the courts are going to order that you guys at least go to some marital counselling first. that's how it works pretty much everywhere now.
if feelings were once there, and they feel like they're gone now- both of you should be fighting your asses off for that. love is worth fighting for (sorry for sounding hokey- but it's true). Don't lay down and die just yet. Try to talk to your wife. Try to explain to her that relationships are a constant cycle of falling in and out of love and working together to stay whole.
before we were married. i tired talking to her about it all night. i even told her i'd give her a month off it would help, i don't want to lose her.....i love her more then life!
that makes no sense to me. she still went through with the wedding? that's so strange. something must have been there for her to have the guts to fly all the way up here, become your wife- and the tattoo thing? something drove her to do all of those things.
she (and you) can believe one of two things regarding of what that thing was. 1) love. 2) insanity.
I'd rather believe the first one... I think you would as well. I think she would as well.
Something had to be there for her to wake up that morning, and show up... she did it. Insane people don't apply to Harvard... eloping is a spontanious act of love... of loveAgain, something drove her to go through all of that for you. I mean- for Christ's sake- women who aren't in love don't tattoo peoples faces on their asses! I hate bringing that up all the time- but that's proof
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So- make her read this... hopefully some of it will be taken to heart and not taken as offensive.
I'm HELLA SMART CLAIRE! LISTEN TO THE JENN-MEISTER! I'm saying this because you guys have one of the cutest love stories I've ever heard and you can't let it go so soon.
The two of you swore "forever"... at least give "forever" a better chance than one month. People have made relationships work through the worst of times. That's what it's all about, the easy carefree times are great- it's the worst of times where you have to stick together.
"For better, for worse, For Richer, for poorer, In sickness, in health"...etc. That's what it all means. This is where it counts. Don't let it go just yet. Your relationship hasn't even gotten to the good stuff yet.
no. in fact i was as understanding as possible and told her i will wait the month for her to make up her mind and asked if she wanted a divorce and would give it to her after the month. hurt more then anything i can imagine.....everytime i look at the picture on the wall of me kissing her before i got on the plane it makes me cry now.
Have faith. Pray a lot to night to whom it may concern in yourlife.
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I mean- weeks? days? before you guys got married? what is she feeling? is it that she's lonely? insecure?
you know what i mean? i mean, i am positive that relationships in much more unuseual situations than this have survived. the fact of the matter is that she married you. that's not easy or cheap to get out of...and if she wants to call it quits- the courts are going to order that you guys at least go to some marital counselling first. that's how it works pretty much everywhere now.
if feelings were once there, and they feel like they're gone now- both of you should be fighting your asses off for that. love is worth fighting for (sorry for sounding hokey- but it's true). Don't lay down and die just yet. Try to talk to your wife. Try to explain to her that relationships are a constant cycle of falling in and out of love and working together to stay whole.
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she (and you) can believe one of two things regarding of what that thing was. 1) love. 2) insanity.
I'd rather believe the first one... I think you would as well. I think she would as well.
Something had to be there for her to wake up that morning, and show up... she did it. Insane people don't apply to Harvard... eloping is a spontanious act of love... of loveAgain, something drove her to go through all of that for you. I mean- for Christ's sake- women who aren't in love don't tattoo peoples faces on their asses! I hate bringing that up all the time- but that's proof ( ... )
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I'm HELLA SMART CLAIRE! LISTEN TO THE JENN-MEISTER! I'm saying this because you guys have one of the cutest love stories I've ever heard and you can't let it go so soon.
The two of you swore "forever"... at least give "forever" a better chance than one month. People have made relationships work through the worst of times. That's what it's all about, the easy carefree times are great- it's the worst of times where you have to stick together.
"For better, for worse, For Richer, for poorer, In sickness, in health"...etc. That's what it all means. This is where it counts. Don't let it go just yet. Your relationship hasn't even gotten to the good stuff yet.
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if that doesn't faze her... then don't cry for her.
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there wasn't a fight or anything?
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