Bored as hell...............................................................

Jun 03, 2004 21:18

"Could my vibrator be dangerous?"

Is it dangerous to have intercourse with my husband's penis and a vibrator inside at the same time? We both tend to enjoy it from time to time but worry it could cause one of us physical damage.

And rightfully so! From your letter, it sounds like you might be using the vibrator unguided, meaning that neither one of you is controlling it. If that's the case, yes, there is reason to be concerned. Any piece of equipment that is left to its own devices can lead to trouble. A vibrator bumping around in your vaginal canal at the same time as your husband's penis could be an accident waiting to happen. It could bruise his penis or damage you internally. You might want to try sitting on top of him so one of you can manipulate the vibrator while he is inside you.

You mentioned that both you and your husband enjoy this, but you didn't say what it is that makes it so pleasurable. For example, if your husband is into the vibrating sensation, try inserting a couple of fingers into your vagina to stimulate his penis while it's inside of you. If you're going for a full, thick feeling, you might want to try using a larger vibrator exclusively that both you and your husband can maneuver at different points. You can begin with intercourse and then proceed to using the vibrator, or vice versa, depending on what point in lovemaking the fuller feeling is more arousing and helps you climax.

That is scary!
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