Valentine's Day and other things
Obviously my promise to post more this year isn't going well so far :P but hey, one post a month is getting better! slowly xD
I just got back from tour yesterday! It was bittersweet, because I know it's the last time I'll see my boyfriend in a while (he's going back to South Korea for a month because of family issues), but it was nice to spend a last weekend with him before he left. Still, I'm sad that he'll be gone :( at least he got to come on the trip, so we got to play his feature song and we got to celebrate his birthday (which was yesterday, so we sang for him at midnight as we were driving through the night to get home). But, he does miss Optimist Festival for all three bands he's in, and he does miss Valentine's Day, and I'm afraid of how stressed he'll be when he gets back because missing a month of school is a lot, especially at the start of the semester, I dunno how he'll cope with it but my assumption is not well. But, that is life I suppose, and I can only hope for the best.
In good news, FALL OUT BOY IS BACK! :D some light in my dark world I suppose.
1: Do you have a crush at the moment?
Yes, my boyfriend!
2: Have you ever been deeply in love?
I think so
3: Longest relationship you’ve ever been in?
10 months
4: Have you ever changed for someone?
A bit, but for the better.
5: How is your relationship with your ex?
One of them is now my best friend, one of them I don't talk to and have no way to talk to.
6: Have you ever been cheated on?
Nope
7: Have you ever cheated?
No
8: Would you date someone who’s well known for cheating?
Probably not
9: What’s the most important part of a relationship?
I think it's how well you fight. If you can end fights civilly and not make everything a big deal, that relationship will last long.
10: Do you like to be in serious relationships or just flings?
Serious relationships
11: When you are dating someone do you believe in going on “breaks”?
Personally no, but I can see why it works for other people. I do believe in giving each other space though, like a week with little contact, but not officially breaking up with the assumption that you'll get back together.
12: How many people have you ever hooked up with?
None
13: What’s one thing you regret saying/doing in a previous relationship?
Not trusting my instincts
14: What age do you think is appropriate for kids to start having sex?
I think it's more about how long you're in the relationship than how old the people are, although the two people do have to have a close mental age. Like, I believe losing it in a month relationship at 18 or a year relationship at 16 are vastly different. Still, I think 16 is the minimum age that most people would be mature enough.
15: Do you believe in the phrase “age is just a number”?
In most cases, yes
16: Do you believe in “love at first sight”?
More like connection at first sight.
17: Do you believe it’s possible to fall in love on the internet?
Yeah, but it's certainly harder than in real life
18: What do you consider a deal breaker?
If he is very prejudiced.
19: How do you know it’s time to end a relationship?
The connection is gone, or you can't get over a major deal breaking difference.
20: Are you currently in a relationship?
Yes
21: Do you think people who have dated can stay friends?
If they give each other space first, yes. My ex and I hated each other for a year, but now we're best friends again, we just needed space to develop and change separately before we could be close again.
22: Do you think people should date their friends?
I personally find that this usually works out way better than dating people you're not close to.
23: How many relationships have you had?
Only 3
24: Do you think love can last forever?
Yeah!
25: Do you believe love can conquer all things?
Of course
26: Would you break up with someone your parents didn’t approve of?
At this age, no. If they didn't like it he would just never come over to my house.
27: If you could go back in time and give yourself one piece of advice about dating what would it be?
You're going to lose sometimes, but it makes it better in the end.
28: Do you think long distance relationships can work?
I think so, but it takes the right types of people. I hope it can work out for me and my boyfriend, but fortunately it's very short term.
29: What do you notice first about another person?
Their appearance, and their facial expression.
30: Are you straight, bi, gay or pansexual?
Straight
31: Would it bother you if your partner suffered from any mental illness?
Depends on the illness and if he's actively trying to manage it.
32: Have you ever been in an abusive relationship?
Nope
33: Do you want to get married one day?
Yes!
34: What do you think about getting your partner’s name tattooed?
Not their name, but maybe a symbol that symbolizes them? Easier to reexplain if we break up :P
35: Could you be in a relationship without sex?
Yes
36: Are you still a virgin?
Yes
37: What’s more important: Looks or personality?
Personality, although looks really help.
38: Do you enjoy love films?
Not usually.
39: Have you ever given anyone/received roses?
My boyfriend brought me half a dozen roses on New Year's Eve, after surprising me at my door, it was the most romantic thing ever and my friends at that party can attest for how sappy it was and how happy it made me.
40: Have you ever had a valentine?
Yes!
41: What’s your imagination of a “perfect date”?
I really don't care what we do as long as we're together.
42: Have you ever read “Romeo & Juliet”?
Nope, but I think I read it in school at some point...
43: What’s more important: Your partner or your friends?
Chicks before dicks, but this is probably the thing my boyfriend and I fight about the most.
44: Would you consider yourself “romantic”?
I think so!
45: Could you imagine to date one of your current friends?
If I was single, yes
46: Have you ever been “friendzoned”?
Oh yes
47: Which “famous couple” is your favorite?
Uhm, if non canon couples count... Chris Colfer/Darren Criss
48: What’s your favorite love song?
Uhm, it changes a lot, I'll say Lullabye by Fall Out Boy right now.
49: Have you ever broken someone’s heart?
Possibly.
50: If you’re single, why do you think you are?
I think the reason a lot of guys don't like me romantically is because I'm very dominant, tomboyish, and not shy about talking about things. But luckily I found a guy who accepts all of that!
51: Would you rather date someone who’s rich but a douchebag or someone who’s poor but a nice guy?
Poor nice guy! Money is easier to earn than a nice personality :p
52: Are you good at giving other people advices regarding dating/ relationships?
I usually have a vastly different opinion from most people, so I like to say I offer a different outlook on the situation, because I'm the most romantically and sexually experienced of most of my friends.
53: Are you jealous of couples when you’re single?
Sometimes, although usually I like being single!
54: How important is it to make a relationship official (p.e. on facebook)?
For teenagers like me, pretty important.
55: Would you consider yourself “clingy”, “overly attached” or “jealous”?
I hardly ever get jealous, so no.
56: Have you ever “destroyed” a relationship?
I think I've been the reason of a couple break ups
57: Do you think it’s silly to consider suicide because of a broken heart?
No, it can really, really shake someone and if they don't have a support system I can see why they would consider it.
58: Are you the “dominant” or the “submissive” part in a relationship?
Romantically dominant, sexually submissive.
59: Have you ever forgotten important dates like your partner’s birthday or your anniversary?
Nope, that's what chop_ninja is for :P
60: What’s your opinion on open relationships?
I would be open to considering it if my boyfriend wanted to.
61: Who’s more important: Your partner or your family?
I would say they're of equal importance.
62: How do you define “cheating”?
When you're doing something romantically/sexually that you don't want your partner to find out about.
63: Is watching porn while being in a relationship inappropriate?
Nope, if your sexual wants don't match up it can make a relationship better, because both people will be sexually satisfied.
64: Do you think Valentine’s Day is overrated?
Nope, if you don't like it just ignore it!
65: Would you consider yourself a “cuddler”?
Very much so!
I just got back from tour yesterday! It was bittersweet, because I know it's the last time I'll see my boyfriend in a while (he's going back to South Korea for a month because of family issues), but it was nice to spend a last weekend with him before he left. Still, I'm sad that he'll be gone :( at least he got to come on the trip, so we got to play his feature song and we got to celebrate his birthday (which was yesterday, so we sang for him at midnight as we were driving through the night to get home). But, he does miss Optimist Festival for all three bands he's in, and he does miss Valentine's Day, and I'm afraid of how stressed he'll be when he gets back because missing a month of school is a lot, especially at the start of the semester, I dunno how he'll cope with it but my assumption is not well. But, that is life I suppose, and I can only hope for the best.
In good news, FALL OUT BOY IS BACK! :D some light in my dark world I suppose.
1: Do you have a crush at the moment?
Yes, my boyfriend!
2: Have you ever been deeply in love?
I think so
3: Longest relationship you’ve ever been in?
10 months
4: Have you ever changed for someone?
A bit, but for the better.
5: How is your relationship with your ex?
One of them is now my best friend, one of them I don't talk to and have no way to talk to.
6: Have you ever been cheated on?
Nope
7: Have you ever cheated?
No
8: Would you date someone who’s well known for cheating?
Probably not
9: What’s the most important part of a relationship?
I think it's how well you fight. If you can end fights civilly and not make everything a big deal, that relationship will last long.
10: Do you like to be in serious relationships or just flings?
Serious relationships
11: When you are dating someone do you believe in going on “breaks”?
Personally no, but I can see why it works for other people. I do believe in giving each other space though, like a week with little contact, but not officially breaking up with the assumption that you'll get back together.
12: How many people have you ever hooked up with?
None
13: What’s one thing you regret saying/doing in a previous relationship?
Not trusting my instincts
14: What age do you think is appropriate for kids to start having sex?
I think it's more about how long you're in the relationship than how old the people are, although the two people do have to have a close mental age. Like, I believe losing it in a month relationship at 18 or a year relationship at 16 are vastly different. Still, I think 16 is the minimum age that most people would be mature enough.
15: Do you believe in the phrase “age is just a number”?
In most cases, yes
16: Do you believe in “love at first sight”?
More like connection at first sight.
17: Do you believe it’s possible to fall in love on the internet?
Yeah, but it's certainly harder than in real life
18: What do you consider a deal breaker?
If he is very prejudiced.
19: How do you know it’s time to end a relationship?
The connection is gone, or you can't get over a major deal breaking difference.
20: Are you currently in a relationship?
Yes
21: Do you think people who have dated can stay friends?
If they give each other space first, yes. My ex and I hated each other for a year, but now we're best friends again, we just needed space to develop and change separately before we could be close again.
22: Do you think people should date their friends?
I personally find that this usually works out way better than dating people you're not close to.
23: How many relationships have you had?
Only 3
24: Do you think love can last forever?
Yeah!
25: Do you believe love can conquer all things?
Of course
26: Would you break up with someone your parents didn’t approve of?
At this age, no. If they didn't like it he would just never come over to my house.
27: If you could go back in time and give yourself one piece of advice about dating what would it be?
You're going to lose sometimes, but it makes it better in the end.
28: Do you think long distance relationships can work?
I think so, but it takes the right types of people. I hope it can work out for me and my boyfriend, but fortunately it's very short term.
29: What do you notice first about another person?
Their appearance, and their facial expression.
30: Are you straight, bi, gay or pansexual?
Straight
31: Would it bother you if your partner suffered from any mental illness?
Depends on the illness and if he's actively trying to manage it.
32: Have you ever been in an abusive relationship?
Nope
33: Do you want to get married one day?
Yes!
34: What do you think about getting your partner’s name tattooed?
Not their name, but maybe a symbol that symbolizes them? Easier to reexplain if we break up :P
35: Could you be in a relationship without sex?
Yes
36: Are you still a virgin?
Yes
37: What’s more important: Looks or personality?
Personality, although looks really help.
38: Do you enjoy love films?
Not usually.
39: Have you ever given anyone/received roses?
My boyfriend brought me half a dozen roses on New Year's Eve, after surprising me at my door, it was the most romantic thing ever and my friends at that party can attest for how sappy it was and how happy it made me.
40: Have you ever had a valentine?
Yes!
41: What’s your imagination of a “perfect date”?
I really don't care what we do as long as we're together.
42: Have you ever read “Romeo & Juliet”?
Nope, but I think I read it in school at some point...
43: What’s more important: Your partner or your friends?
Chicks before dicks, but this is probably the thing my boyfriend and I fight about the most.
44: Would you consider yourself “romantic”?
I think so!
45: Could you imagine to date one of your current friends?
If I was single, yes
46: Have you ever been “friendzoned”?
Oh yes
47: Which “famous couple” is your favorite?
Uhm, if non canon couples count... Chris Colfer/Darren Criss
48: What’s your favorite love song?
Uhm, it changes a lot, I'll say Lullabye by Fall Out Boy right now.
49: Have you ever broken someone’s heart?
Possibly.
50: If you’re single, why do you think you are?
I think the reason a lot of guys don't like me romantically is because I'm very dominant, tomboyish, and not shy about talking about things. But luckily I found a guy who accepts all of that!
51: Would you rather date someone who’s rich but a douchebag or someone who’s poor but a nice guy?
Poor nice guy! Money is easier to earn than a nice personality :p
52: Are you good at giving other people advices regarding dating/ relationships?
I usually have a vastly different opinion from most people, so I like to say I offer a different outlook on the situation, because I'm the most romantically and sexually experienced of most of my friends.
53: Are you jealous of couples when you’re single?
Sometimes, although usually I like being single!
54: How important is it to make a relationship official (p.e. on facebook)?
For teenagers like me, pretty important.
55: Would you consider yourself “clingy”, “overly attached” or “jealous”?
I hardly ever get jealous, so no.
56: Have you ever “destroyed” a relationship?
I think I've been the reason of a couple break ups
57: Do you think it’s silly to consider suicide because of a broken heart?
No, it can really, really shake someone and if they don't have a support system I can see why they would consider it.
58: Are you the “dominant” or the “submissive” part in a relationship?
Romantically dominant, sexually submissive.
59: Have you ever forgotten important dates like your partner’s birthday or your anniversary?
Nope, that's what chop_ninja is for :P
60: What’s your opinion on open relationships?
I would be open to considering it if my boyfriend wanted to.
61: Who’s more important: Your partner or your family?
I would say they're of equal importance.
62: How do you define “cheating”?
When you're doing something romantically/sexually that you don't want your partner to find out about.
63: Is watching porn while being in a relationship inappropriate?
Nope, if your sexual wants don't match up it can make a relationship better, because both people will be sexually satisfied.
64: Do you think Valentine’s Day is overrated?
Nope, if you don't like it just ignore it!
65: Would you consider yourself a “cuddler”?
Very much so!