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So, for anyone who is interested in what goes on with Brian and me, I figured I would update. He's being a douche. He's earned the right to be a douche, but I think he is abusing that right. He was supposed to go with me to Vegas for my sister's wedding. As you may know, I have not wanted to be with him for some time now and I realized that, if the situatuion were reversed, I would not want to spend the time and money to go to his sibling's wedding and then get dumped when we got home. So I got to Vegas, called him, and told him not to come. I should have said something sooner, yes, but I was going to put up with his presence since we'd already made all our plans. It was only out of consideration for the money that I decided to say don't come. He took it better than I thought, but since I got home he's been awful. He's barely talked to me (I've gotten like 5 texts from him since I got home Saturday). I told him I was sick (I have bronchitis) and he didn't ask what was wrong or say he hoped I felt better. If I hadn't been set on breaking up with him already, this attitude of his would have decided it for me. I know I was not nice to tell him not to come to Vegas and I hurt him more than he let on, but geesh! Either let it out, let it go, or dump me! Or all three, whatever. I don't plan on continuing this relationship past our next conversation, but if he doesn't hurry up with getting over himself enough to talk to me, I'm going to consider myself single by default. Any thoughts? And yes, you can feel free to fry me for telling him to stay in Maryland.