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I'm single again and glad to be, to be honest. Here's what happened ...
He ignored me for three weeks for no known reason. I called and sent messages but there was always nothing, so I sent a bit of an ultimatum and he said he never had any feelings for me and wanted to get back with his ex. A girl who slaps him round the face when she can't get want she wants, publicly humiliated him in front of all his friends, is a running joke in the town she comes from and has cheated on him numerous times. I told him what an idiot he is and how badly he has treated me. Then that night I get 12 missed calls and messages from him screaming at me that one of my friends called his ex and told her that I was still with him and pregnant with his baby?!??!?! This is impossible as none of my friends have even met the slag let alone got her number. Then she changed the story to it was me who called her and told this shit. Yet again, I've never spoken to her so I could never have had her number. It really saddens me that he wouldn't believe me. It's sick that someone could think up this crap. Anyway I told him to fuck off. Then the next night I get some really horrible texts, saying that I should burn in hell and die amoungst other things and then a call saying "bitch" and then hung up. I told him what was happening and that I suspect its his ex or her friends doing this and he just wouldn't have it. Thankfully these texts and calls stopped. Then he text me saying he wanted me to take a pregnancy test so he can be sure??!?!?! Just for the record I am not pregnant and never have been. I've spoken to a friend of his who broke up with one of Ben's ex's friends and he got the same shit. He said they do this because they're pathetic little tarts and are known for it apparently.
So I think I'm definately better off out of that situation. It's upsetting because his ex can still control him like that. To be quite honest I don't think he's that stable at the moment but I'm not gonna get in contact again just to be told what I "liar" I am. I don't lie, and I've not capable of being that fucking evil.
So another lesson learned: Do not get involved with someone who still talks with their ex or has a history of mental illness.
He ignored me for three weeks for no known reason. I called and sent messages but there was always nothing, so I sent a bit of an ultimatum and he said he never had any feelings for me and wanted to get back with his ex. A girl who slaps him round the face when she can't get want she wants, publicly humiliated him in front of all his friends, is a running joke in the town she comes from and has cheated on him numerous times. I told him what an idiot he is and how badly he has treated me. Then that night I get 12 missed calls and messages from him screaming at me that one of my friends called his ex and told her that I was still with him and pregnant with his baby?!??!?! This is impossible as none of my friends have even met the slag let alone got her number. Then she changed the story to it was me who called her and told this shit. Yet again, I've never spoken to her so I could never have had her number. It really saddens me that he wouldn't believe me. It's sick that someone could think up this crap. Anyway I told him to fuck off. Then the next night I get some really horrible texts, saying that I should burn in hell and die amoungst other things and then a call saying "bitch" and then hung up. I told him what was happening and that I suspect its his ex or her friends doing this and he just wouldn't have it. Thankfully these texts and calls stopped. Then he text me saying he wanted me to take a pregnancy test so he can be sure??!?!?! Just for the record I am not pregnant and never have been. I've spoken to a friend of his who broke up with one of Ben's ex's friends and he got the same shit. He said they do this because they're pathetic little tarts and are known for it apparently.
So I think I'm definately better off out of that situation. It's upsetting because his ex can still control him like that. To be quite honest I don't think he's that stable at the moment but I'm not gonna get in contact again just to be told what I "liar" I am. I don't lie, and I've not capable of being that fucking evil.
So another lesson learned: Do not get involved with someone who still talks with their ex or has a history of mental illness.