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So, it has been a while.
I feel it necessary to say today that everyone I once knew to be single, is now married. They have all taken the plunge. I have been to 6 weddings over the last year with 2 more to go this year.
While the desire for me to get married is not even remotely there (as I am still 22 in my head and not almost 26) it seems sad to me.
I went to Jessica's wedding this weekend, the other twin, and I served as a bridesmaid while Ben served as a groomsman. I was overjoyed at the fact that Jessica was marrying a great man, whom I actually really like, but saddened that her life as my single friend is over. This means for sure that I will no longer see her on a regular basis, as they will soon begin to have babies, and will not have the time that they have had over the last year to visit with Ben and I.
Why does it change so much when you get married, or when you even start dating for that matter?
I never understood the whole dating thing when I was single. The guys were always more important. But now, as I enter into 2nd unofficial anniversary, I am starting to understand a little better. My friends are important and I would walk through fire for any of them, even some of those that are not really friends anymore, but he has become my best friend, the one I would come back through that fire for.
Weird, so weird.
Oh well, I suppose I was the first one to grow boobs, so I had to be the last one to understand...
I feel it necessary to say today that everyone I once knew to be single, is now married. They have all taken the plunge. I have been to 6 weddings over the last year with 2 more to go this year.
While the desire for me to get married is not even remotely there (as I am still 22 in my head and not almost 26) it seems sad to me.
I went to Jessica's wedding this weekend, the other twin, and I served as a bridesmaid while Ben served as a groomsman. I was overjoyed at the fact that Jessica was marrying a great man, whom I actually really like, but saddened that her life as my single friend is over. This means for sure that I will no longer see her on a regular basis, as they will soon begin to have babies, and will not have the time that they have had over the last year to visit with Ben and I.
Why does it change so much when you get married, or when you even start dating for that matter?
I never understood the whole dating thing when I was single. The guys were always more important. But now, as I enter into 2nd unofficial anniversary, I am starting to understand a little better. My friends are important and I would walk through fire for any of them, even some of those that are not really friends anymore, but he has become my best friend, the one I would come back through that fire for.
Weird, so weird.
Oh well, I suppose I was the first one to grow boobs, so I had to be the last one to understand...