Love, Lust and purity........

[vallie_claire]

Wow! The coolest experience happened tonight. I had the privledged to be introduced to four very fine young mem,. very christain young men. But the reason we were introduced was because they came to talk to us about the guys side of purity. I wish every boy/ girl had the courage to talk openly aobut this kind of stuff with the opposite sex because

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Honestly

[peno_the_great]

I'm sure its no suprise but i don't like any of this one bit. Both sacrifice and labor are absolutely terrible words for love. When you truly love someone there is no such thing as sacrifice. Well that's not true of course there will always be sacrifice. But to define the term with sacrifice thats rubbish. I'm gonna guess that we are talking about man to woman love because thats what this is about. If thats the case sacrifice is one of the worst words to define it. You don't mind doing anything for the one you love. I can never think of a time where I "sacrificed" anything for a loved one. I guess labor is a decent word. But still that definition makes it sound terrible. I probably shouldn't have said anything but i don't like that. Its believing in a definition like that, that will make you end up burning out and losing the feeling. I love many people and very strongly and I would never agree to that definition. Maybe its because I am very picky with who I choose to learn to love and its a better match so I don't have to sacrifice anything or labor for them, instead we just enjoy each other. Love is easy, when you are talking about true, opposite sex, love. Yeah you may have hard things to overcome but the rewards shadow them completely. I don't even get this definition. Maybe im reading it wrong. Every "love" ive dealt with I just be myself, which is the easiest thing in the world, and it works. Now how this definition had to do with lust I can't figure out, laboring????????????????, lust??????????????. I don't understand. I hope Jesus didn't say this or i will feel really stupid for disagreeing so stongly but I just can't agree. Ohh and don't take this personally at all Valerie. I'm really curious to know why you like this defintion though?

Re: Honestly

[peno_the_great]

Oh and don't bring up physical sacrifice cuz thats completely different. Like dying for someone is obviously love but thats not what thats talking about,

Re: Honestly

[vallie_claire]

Beatuiful........really. I'll talk to you more about this later.