Apr 11, 2009 22:56
And by they I mean my family. My father calls me. My step sister Katie was suppose to get married this coming Saturday. Well her man decided it he wanted to call it off. From what I understand, they had there batcholar parties on friday and Mike's friends told him that he might want to rethink this because she was his first. I hope he understand that if that is the case then the relationship as a whole is going to be over. I talked to my father for a little while longer. I explained to him how Roger was alittle upset about it because he got me the camera because of the wedding. Then my father goes off and say why is he blaming me for it you needed it you are very talented. I told he was not blaming him he was blaming Mike. I told my father that he didn't call off the wedding. Dad say Roger needs to get over himself and stop holding you back. So I asked the question that you never ask a Shyrock. So dad not to mean this in a bad way or anything but, how many have you had tonight. What he askes. I say you know what. hahaha he replies in the old wise man voice "Not enough my child" I reply I know how you feel. I dont drink, conversations are never the same. The only plus is that you don't remeber allot of things that are said the next morning. That can be a bad thing as well. So after that he say. You know Jamie is coming down, but so is your grand mother. I laugh and say " So I guess we are going to have a drunk fest this Saturday instead." Yep you know he told me. I told him I loved him and got off the phone. I had to call my sister. I guess while I was in my room watiching Fringe she called and Roger though I was sleeping.
I got on the phone with her. So you know Katie called off the wedding. Yep. And you know Grandma is coming down. Yep. She is coming down I was told not to help my father to control the want to kill, but to have a talk to him about how he needs to stop supporting Sandies kids. I told my sister that, that would not be a good ideal because dad whould just tell her that, that is Sandy kids and I am not going to tell her what to or not to do for her kids. Now this is the time I relize my sister is drunk. She then tells me that grandma say the same thing and then starts to blam things on our mother. It is all our mother fault she programed dad to take care of his wife needes before the kids. I told her no that if Sandy wanted it to be any diffrent she could stop it. But, she dosn't and I came to accept that along time ago. We are not her kids therfor we are below her. Then Sam goes off on how Sandy's kids got all this stuff done for them but what about us. I know my father never paid for my weddings and he never paid for hers eather. Oh well. I am not Sandy's kid. Then she tells me it is not Sandys fault it is our mothers. What did our mom tell our father to do this for Sandy? No and if I recall they have not been togeather now for over 20 years her control over his has desloved. I really hope things are not going to be like this this coming Saturday. My kids are going to get to meet there great grandma for the first time and I dont want it to be stessfull. So TJ, Sams hubby hears that this conversation is going south and he gets her off the phone. At least when she got off she told me she loved me. So no feeling where hurt. That is always a good thing.