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so, i've got this friend bob, right. bob and i have been friends for 6 years or something. we've fought, like long-term friends do. we've made up, like long-term friends do. we've forgiven each other for dumb shit, been there for each other, etc etc for 6 years or so. bob likes to keep really shitty people in their life. bob likes to put said shitty friends in front of her other friends. bob feels that a good friend is someone who hangs around her all the time and buys her things every so often. i don't live in long beach, and thus would understand why she would put others before me. that's ttly cool. i guess my problem is that bob has no respect for me or anyone else anymore. the people bob keeps around are trash, and bob is free to pick her own friends, and if she wants to hang around trashy people who are shady as fuck and backstab her and her friends, that's cool. however, i feel that bob's supposedly "neutral" ways of dealing with drama are quite lopsided and always favor the shady assholes she prefers to be around, rather than the people she's known and been around much longer. i feel that bob has been rather two-faced to both her trustworthy friends and the dirty bastards she kicks it with. i think that bob spends a little too much time playing the victim and then pretending she's so neutral and cool. i think bob spends too much time pretending she's the queen of everything when really she lets everyone in her life treat her like shit, just because they're superficially kind to her. and the people who treat her like a regular ass person, which is what she once was although i can't speak for what she is now, get shoved to the side or completely out. i think bob should get the fuck over herself.
or maybe i need to get over her. how many times does she have to double-cross, two-face, and backstab candy, sandy, mandy and randy before i catch on that she's just not a good person? that's not to say that i like mandy and randy at all. actually, i hate them both, but i don't backstab people, whether or not i like them.
see, bob spends 85% of her time going on about how useless mandy is, and how he sucks up all her energy and time and blah fuckign blah because you wouldn't believe how much time and energy mandy dedicates to her. you wouldn't believe how, every time i see mandy, he's doing something for her. and yea, mandy's a fucking jackass and he could just as easily die and i wouldn't cry, except for the 3 year old girl who will have lost her best friend.
and i could go on for hours about randy. i could ring his fucking neck for all the shit he's done to my friends, including but not limited to lying, scheming, backstabbing, ruining friendships and in general being poison. but randy, well randy's a good liar. he had all of us fooled at one point or another, although candy and brandy weren't fooled for very long. it didn't take them long to smell the poison, and it unfortunately took far too long for sandy and i to notice. but by then, randy had moved from living off of and taking advantage of sandy, to bob. and bob, well bob loves randy, despite the shit he's pulled from the very fucking beginning. bob likes to make jokes about how she only keeps randy around because he'll give her money, but i know quite well that she loves him. it doesn't matter how many times randy has tried to destroy bob's relationship with mandy [not that it needs help], or the other shit he's pulled with bob's other friends. it doesn't matter that randy doesn't actually have a personality and all he knows how to do is emulate to please. because randy is there all the fucking time, usually with money.
but candy and sandy? now they mean something to me. how could you be so shady to people like that? i don't think it really matters how fucked up bob is to randy and mandy. my concern is that candy and sandy have been genuine from the start. but mostly, for someone who believes in karma, bob doesn't seem too worried about it coming back to get her.
and now that i think about it, bob wasn't so kind to julia way back when either.
i don't think i need people like bob in my life. i think bob's been around long enough. i think bob has shown where her priorities lie. i think that's enough.
or maybe i need to get over her. how many times does she have to double-cross, two-face, and backstab candy, sandy, mandy and randy before i catch on that she's just not a good person? that's not to say that i like mandy and randy at all. actually, i hate them both, but i don't backstab people, whether or not i like them.
see, bob spends 85% of her time going on about how useless mandy is, and how he sucks up all her energy and time and blah fuckign blah because you wouldn't believe how much time and energy mandy dedicates to her. you wouldn't believe how, every time i see mandy, he's doing something for her. and yea, mandy's a fucking jackass and he could just as easily die and i wouldn't cry, except for the 3 year old girl who will have lost her best friend.
and i could go on for hours about randy. i could ring his fucking neck for all the shit he's done to my friends, including but not limited to lying, scheming, backstabbing, ruining friendships and in general being poison. but randy, well randy's a good liar. he had all of us fooled at one point or another, although candy and brandy weren't fooled for very long. it didn't take them long to smell the poison, and it unfortunately took far too long for sandy and i to notice. but by then, randy had moved from living off of and taking advantage of sandy, to bob. and bob, well bob loves randy, despite the shit he's pulled from the very fucking beginning. bob likes to make jokes about how she only keeps randy around because he'll give her money, but i know quite well that she loves him. it doesn't matter how many times randy has tried to destroy bob's relationship with mandy [not that it needs help], or the other shit he's pulled with bob's other friends. it doesn't matter that randy doesn't actually have a personality and all he knows how to do is emulate to please. because randy is there all the fucking time, usually with money.
but candy and sandy? now they mean something to me. how could you be so shady to people like that? i don't think it really matters how fucked up bob is to randy and mandy. my concern is that candy and sandy have been genuine from the start. but mostly, for someone who believes in karma, bob doesn't seem too worried about it coming back to get her.
and now that i think about it, bob wasn't so kind to julia way back when either.
i don't think i need people like bob in my life. i think bob's been around long enough. i think bob has shown where her priorities lie. i think that's enough.