Condoms
Okay so I had sex for the first time a like last week. My period is next week(ihope) and i'm really freaking out. We've done it a few times now and always used condoms (trogan)
Anyway a lot of my girlfriends have been reassuring me that condoms are effective for birth control and reliable. I'm still a little bit freaking out.
BTW HBC not entirely an option--no money + controlling religious fam so i guess the insurance would show it and i'd be dead.
reassure me!
EDIT: thank everyone for their input! I think I've devised a grand scheme...tell me if it's a bad idea?
I'm going to lie about my period and say it's been really painful and heavy and blah blah blah and imply that HBC is the thing to do. Then, at the doctors, I'll come clean to the doctor so he/she doesn't think i have some serious problem and I'll ask him/her to keep it a secret from my mum. Deal?
Anyway a lot of my girlfriends have been reassuring me that condoms are effective for birth control and reliable. I'm still a little bit freaking out.
BTW HBC not entirely an option--no money + controlling religious fam so i guess the insurance would show it and i'd be dead.
reassure me!
EDIT: thank everyone for their input! I think I've devised a grand scheme...tell me if it's a bad idea?
I'm going to lie about my period and say it's been really painful and heavy and blah blah blah and imply that HBC is the thing to do. Then, at the doctors, I'll come clean to the doctor so he/she doesn't think i have some serious problem and I'll ask him/her to keep it a secret from my mum. Deal?