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ok so i came upon a book today that proved to be excellent reading. it could have possibly made my day. these are a few passages that i found revelant to me, my life and my situation.
"All guys think about the same things whether they are spiritual or not. You may say “oh, not my boyfriend. He’s a good Christian guy.” Yeah, and he is looking for good-Christian- guy sex. See, guys are males first and Christians second. But their basic nature comes from being a male and their first thought is sex."
"You like a guy, but he isn’t making a move. You convince yourself that maybe he is just shy… thinking, “he likes me, but I am going to have to make the first move. It’s ok. What do I have to lose?” (a lot) So you call him. But deep down inside, you know that’s not the way its supposed to happen. You know that you should be pursued. You should be asked. You should be the jewel being sought after. But you get in a rush. You have to lie and tell yourself, “Its not the stone age anymore. Girls can ask out guys.” Sure you can. But don’t kid yourself; the guy will get bored with you. Wait on the guy. Let him make the move. Give him the chance to be the man. The truth is if he doesn’t ask you, its cause he doesn’t like you or he isn’t man enough to ask."
"And guys, lets say you start crushing on some girl. You talk to her all of the time. You ask her friends about her. (like they wont tell her what you asked.) You e-mail and call her. You do little things for her. You know you like her. She knows you like her. Everyone knows you like her. Well, ASK OR GO AWAY. That’s right, don’t be such a sissy. Quit acting like a grandma driver. Pick a lane and drive in it. If you want to date her, ask. If you don’t, walk away. BUT DON’T JUST KEEP ACTING LIKE YOU REALLY LIKE HER AND NO RISK ANYTHING."
"All guys think about the same things whether they are spiritual or not. You may say “oh, not my boyfriend. He’s a good Christian guy.” Yeah, and he is looking for good-Christian- guy sex. See, guys are males first and Christians second. But their basic nature comes from being a male and their first thought is sex."
"You like a guy, but he isn’t making a move. You convince yourself that maybe he is just shy… thinking, “he likes me, but I am going to have to make the first move. It’s ok. What do I have to lose?” (a lot) So you call him. But deep down inside, you know that’s not the way its supposed to happen. You know that you should be pursued. You should be asked. You should be the jewel being sought after. But you get in a rush. You have to lie and tell yourself, “Its not the stone age anymore. Girls can ask out guys.” Sure you can. But don’t kid yourself; the guy will get bored with you. Wait on the guy. Let him make the move. Give him the chance to be the man. The truth is if he doesn’t ask you, its cause he doesn’t like you or he isn’t man enough to ask."
"And guys, lets say you start crushing on some girl. You talk to her all of the time. You ask her friends about her. (like they wont tell her what you asked.) You e-mail and call her. You do little things for her. You know you like her. She knows you like her. Everyone knows you like her. Well, ASK OR GO AWAY. That’s right, don’t be such a sissy. Quit acting like a grandma driver. Pick a lane and drive in it. If you want to date her, ask. If you don’t, walk away. BUT DON’T JUST KEEP ACTING LIKE YOU REALLY LIKE HER AND NO RISK ANYTHING."