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“Freedom from Toxic People”
Soaring Dove’s blog
How do we honor abusive, evil, reprobate, toxic parents?
We honor them by not returning the abuse that they gave to us.
We honor them by not wanting to destroy their lives, but to improve it/change it/transform it through Christ.
We honor them by praying for their salvation and for their break though.
We honor them by stop trying to save them, or change them, that it is Christ’s job.
We honor them by letting go and letting God work a miracle.
We honor them by realizing that our enabling behavior & failure to give the ultimate consequence of no contact is getting in God’s way.
We honor them by not enabling them to continue their abuse with us or with others.
We honor them by insisting that they get the professional help that they need, before they have anymore contact with us & our family members.
We honor them by remaining in a No Contact status and not being tempted to break it “for the kids sake” during birthdays, holidays, or any other special occasion for this would send a mixed message & defeat the purpose of No Contact.
We honor them by giving them clear boundaries and consequences if they are not remorseful and repent/turn from/change/end their abusive behavior, OR we will have nothing to do with them.
We honor them by reversing the curse, in that we will not allow their abusive legacy to continue to our children.
We honor them by returning honor to the family’s reputation & creating an awesome legacy for future generations.
Soaring Dove’s blog
How do we honor abusive, evil, reprobate, toxic parents?
We honor them by not returning the abuse that they gave to us.
We honor them by not wanting to destroy their lives, but to improve it/change it/transform it through Christ.
We honor them by praying for their salvation and for their break though.
We honor them by stop trying to save them, or change them, that it is Christ’s job.
We honor them by letting go and letting God work a miracle.
We honor them by realizing that our enabling behavior & failure to give the ultimate consequence of no contact is getting in God’s way.
We honor them by not enabling them to continue their abuse with us or with others.
We honor them by insisting that they get the professional help that they need, before they have anymore contact with us & our family members.
We honor them by remaining in a No Contact status and not being tempted to break it “for the kids sake” during birthdays, holidays, or any other special occasion for this would send a mixed message & defeat the purpose of No Contact.
We honor them by giving them clear boundaries and consequences if they are not remorseful and repent/turn from/change/end their abusive behavior, OR we will have nothing to do with them.
We honor them by reversing the curse, in that we will not allow their abusive legacy to continue to our children.
We honor them by returning honor to the family’s reputation & creating an awesome legacy for future generations.