'want to get know as a person' - is probably the biggest reason why I am so fond of them XD not only japanese though, my korean friends are like that too... they don't have this 'western' habbit of deciding everything about yourself from the first glance, but they ask, observe and sometimes it's very pleasing to hear them reason correctly some things they observed from your habits or things about your character and personality in general) Like, talking to asian guys I always get a feeling that 'they are the same' or as my mom said 'creatures from the same planet', like they feel the same, they think the same, etc. And you get the feeling they talk to YOU. Where is here and in my original culture there is constant opposing of the genders and expression of how much different we are and that men will never understand women and vice-versa)
Ah, I received a few invitations to Mixi, but people said they changed the registration rules to avoid more people register from foreign countries and now you can't registr there when you don't have japan's mobile mail address -____- sad
That's true, they do generally try to understand you more instead of making a judgment right away~
I also like it when they figure out what you would prefer to do right away from observation. Not all of them are adapt at this though lol. Its like the Asian concept of "reading" a persons mood and adjusting to it, except add to that they observed your likes and dislikes before that. Americans tend to assume everyone likes the same things as them it seems.
But I must say, I have met a wide range of personalities here, not as similar as you may think. There are shy guys, bold guys, assholes and gentlemen, you have it lol. Honestly, I dated in Korea too and the guys there seem to make more assumptions about you and also try to move too fast if you let them. dangerous! They are pretty interested in just trying to get you in bed from my experience D: I had a couple bfs that weren't so bad but a lot of guys that tried so hard it was ridiculous D:
Well, of course there all different kinds, no one thinks they all act similar XDD there are quite a lot of assholes everywhere Well, now that you say it I started to think that maybe thats because Korean guys I knew didn't look at me as 'possible gilfriend' but as a 'friend' so I got to see other side of them, like.. inside side, so thats why )) Looking back and judjing from our conversations about their 'lovelife', you are probably right))))
Also, forgot to say, I registered at Mixi a couple years ago, I didn't know they changed it! Did you already try to accept the invitation? Maybe if you have an invitation it will let you..? sucks.
they don't have this 'western' habbit of deciding everything about yourself from the first glance, but they ask, observe and sometimes it's very pleasing to hear them reason correctly some things they observed from your habits or things about your character and personality in general)
Like, talking to asian guys I always get a feeling that 'they are the same' or as my mom said 'creatures from the same planet', like they feel the same, they think the same, etc. And you get the feeling they talk to YOU. Where is here and in my original culture there is constant opposing of the genders and expression of how much different we are and that men will never understand women and vice-versa)
Ah, I received a few invitations to Mixi, but people said they changed the registration rules to avoid more people register from foreign countries and now you can't registr there when you don't have japan's mobile mail address -____- sad
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I also like it when they figure out what you would prefer to do right away from observation. Not all of them are adapt at this though lol. Its like the Asian concept of "reading" a persons mood and adjusting to it, except add to that they observed your likes and dislikes before that. Americans tend to assume everyone likes the same things as them it seems.
But I must say, I have met a wide range of personalities here, not as similar as you may think. There are shy guys, bold guys, assholes and gentlemen, you have it lol. Honestly, I dated in Korea too and the guys there seem to make more assumptions about you and also try to move too fast if you let them. dangerous! They are pretty interested in just trying to get you in bed from my experience D: I had a couple bfs that weren't so bad but a lot of guys that tried so hard it was ridiculous D:
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Well, now that you say it I started to think that maybe thats because Korean guys I knew didn't look at me as 'possible gilfriend' but as a 'friend' so I got to see other side of them, like.. inside side, so thats why )) Looking back and judjing from our conversations about their 'lovelife', you are probably right))))
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Who is that on your icon?
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Ah, thats J ))
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i dunno, he looks different than usual.. maybe it's the hair or something
but do <3 J~
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