Are you stupid?

[urinade]

I often do not understand people, and their actions towards others. Are people really this stupid? Or do they just think they can justify their actions by saying I don't know how to act? Because you do not know how to act that makes it ok for you too treat people like shit? Um I'll have to say no on this one. It amazes me how people can treat their friends, family, friend's friends rudely, and wonder why people do not want to be their friend anymore? Let's think back to when we were young. Treat people like you want to be treated. So when we were younger we thought we could be mean to someone if they were mean to us. But now as some of us are more mature we realize that if someone is treating us or the ones we care about poorly we remove them from our lives. But some people do not understand this. And try to give a pathetic attempt at a guilt trip that doesn't work. We are all mature here now people. If you are hanging out with a friend, and you do not like one of their other friends smile and be polite. Especially if you have no justified reason to dislike them. We do not need to act like we are 5. Don't cheat in a relationship, and treat your partner like crap and then wonder why they left you. And then sit there and try to get them back. It is pathetic that is costs many people loosing the ones they care about in order to realize what they have. Maybe the saying is correct: You don't realize what you have until it is gone." But it doesn't have to be like that. SO if you are wodering why it seems like your life is falling apart, and you are loosing the ones you love. Maybe you should look into your actions and see how you interact with people. Don't treat me or anyone I care about badly. Because if you do you are obviously not the person I thought you were, and you don't need to be in my life. Maybe this just happens because people mature, and grow apart? but that still doesn't give a reason for people to be mean to people they have no reason to hate.
I love my friends to death, and I will do anything for them.