Family Profiles
These the personal profiles of the characters as they would appear in the Family’s intranet, which is a place for Family members to make contacts (business and social) and link up with each other.
Alex
Orientation: Switch, Gay
Family role: Born into The Family
Top 5 Kinks: Roleplay, Spanking, Erotic Photography, Sensation Play, Dirty Talk
About Me: Hi, I’m Alex. I’m from New York City and a trained chef, currently working as Head Chef for the Unmarked Place Family Club in New Jersey. I’m in a committed relationship with my boyfriend Ryland. We’re both switches and occasionally like to play with others. We’re active in the local scene and he’s Switch Rep for the New Jersey Chapter.
Looking For: Social and business contacts in the New Jersey area.
Bob
Orientation: Dominant, Bi
Family role: Sponsored into The Family. Co-Founder and Committee Member for New Jersey
Chapter, Mentor
Top 5 Kinks: Knifeplay, Bondage (heavy), Discipline, Collar & Leash, Wax-play
About Me: I’ve moved into New Jersey to start a new Chapter as there was no local one, with my friend Patrick. We’ve also opened a club - Unmarked Place. It caters to Family and non-Family alike. We think it’s awesome. Check it out. (link)
Form of Address: In scenes or in formal address you will refer to me as Master Robert. Otherwise Sir or Bob are sufficient depending on the nature of our relationship.
Looking For: I’m always on the look-out for play partners, new Mentees and business contacts in the New Jersey area.
References: Lord Alan (sponsor and Mentor), Madam Christine (former Mentee), Phil Atwood (former Slave), all from the North Chicago Chapter.
Gerard
Orientation: Dominant, Bi
Family role: Sponsored into The Family by Mistress Lindsey (LynZ). Committee Member for New Jersey Chapter
Top 5 Kinks: Whips, Tattoos, Boot Worship, Power Exchange, Orgasm Control
About Me: Originally from New Jersey. I’m an architect who dabbles at being a comic book artist. I’m a backer of the Unmarked Place family club in New Jersey. Not particularly scene these days as my two Submissives are not Family.
Form of Address: Gerard or Sir, depending on our relationship.
Looking For: Available for commission design work - architectural or other. Discount for Family members.
Lindsey
Orientation: Dominant, Bi
Family role: Born into the Family. Sponsor of Gerard, Committee Member for New Jersey Chapter
Top 5 Kinks: Whips, Sadism, Fetishwear, Needle Play, Power Exchange
About Me: I’m from LA but currently my job takes me all around the country. My boutique chain specialises in high-quality underwear, as well as fetish/roleplay costumes. Discounts available for Family members. I’m currently unattached although I scene actively. If you think you have an offer to make that would interest me, feel free to get in touch.
Form of Address: Mistress Lindsey as a default, unless otherwise permitted.
Looking For: Business contacts always welcome. Open for Submissive/slave applications, casual or long-term.
Nate
Orientation: Submissive/slave, Bi
Family role: Sponsored into The Family by VickyT
Top 5 Kinks: Pet Play, Threesomes, Obedience Training, OTK Spanking, Forced Orgasms
About Me: I’m from Tennessee, but moved to New Jersey for a job. I got into the Family after falling head over heels for this gorgeous woman, who turned out to be much more than met the eye... I’m a collared Submissive/pet of Miss Victoria and we are very happy together.
Looking For: My owner is happy for us to scene with others. However, the decision of whom to play with is hers, so please contact Miss Victoria directly if you are interested.
Patrick
Orientation: Dominant, Bi
Family role: Sponsored into The Family, Co-Founder and Committee Member for New Jersey Chapter
Top 5 Kinks: Kneeling, Breathplay, Marking, Mental BDSM, Begging
About Me: I’m from Glenview, Illinois. Finding the Family was what helped me come to terms with who I am, and I got involved with the North Chicago Chapter from relatively early age. I worked in the music industry as a producer for a number of years, before setting out on my own a few months ago. I’ve also recently moved into New Jersey, to finally become more than just a silent partner in the Family Chapter and Club (Unmarked Place - link) there, which I co-founded with Master Bob.
Looking For: Music contacts/jobs (composition, arrangement, production). I almost never play casually and I prefer to scene with people I’ve actually met and gotten to know through mutual contacts/at the club anyway. So unless you plan on being in the New Jersey area to make your case personally, I’m not interested.
Form of Address: It’s not what you say so much as how you say it. Calling me by my given name is
fine, but I do not stand for disrespect.
References: Madam Lisa and Sir Tremain from the North Chicago Chapter (mentors and sponsors). Can provide contacts of former play-partners/Submissives on request.
Pete
Orientation: Submissive, Bi
Family role: Born into The Family
Top 5 Kinks: Beating, Exhibitionism, Dirty Talk, Service (sexual), Collars (with the right person)
About Me: im originally from Illinois but later moved to new jersey. my Mentor was the well known and respected Lady Bea, from chicago, who as you probably know passed away suddenly in 2004. After a few years of moving around I settled in new jersey. im currently in business with my friend Andy, creating and demonstrating handmade bdsm items and tools. im active in workshops and demonstrations within the scene, come check me out. i write a lot.
Looking For: if you have it, im probably looking for it.
Ryan
Orientation: Toppy Switch, Bi
Family role: Sponsored into The Family.
Top 5 Kinks: Costumes and Dressing Up, Restraining, Clothes pegs, Floggers, Wax play
About Me: I am originally from Las Vegas but now live in New Jersey. I was raised by the Smith Leather Family although I don’t myself identify as such. I’m currently in a long-term open relationship with my Submissive, Brendon, who is thinking about wanting a Sponsor into the Family. I’m a postgraduate student in Creative Writing and English Literature, specialising in the Beat poets.
Looking For: My Submissive is looking for a Sponsor and formal Mentor into the Family. Because of my age and our relationship I don’t feel comfortable in taking on this role. Please contact me if you are genuinely interested in this.
References: Master Daniel (mentor, Las Vegas Chapter), Madam Ginger (Smith Leather Family, Las Vegas Chapter)
Ryland
Orientation: Switch, Bi
Family role: Born into The Family, Switch Representative and Committee Member of the New Jersey Chapter
Top 5 Kinks: Spanking, Erotic Photography, Sensation Play, Flogging (light), Shibari
About me: I am originally from Wilmington. I’m in a committed relationship with my partner, Alex. I’m a stage actor and a pretty easygoing guy. I have a large collection of woolly hats and enjoy knitting (Alex said every actor needed a quirk. I chose this because now I never have to think about what to get people for Christmas...)
Looking for: Occasional play partners, friendship and social connections. Stage roles are always welcome as is most other type of acting work (not porn!)
Spencer
Orientation: Dominant, Gay
Family role: Born into The Family, Disciplinarian and Committee Member of the New Jersey Chapter, Manager of Unmarked Place
Top 5 Kinks: Discipline, Ropework and Suspension, Shibari, Orgasm Control, Sensation Play
About Me: I’m from Las Vegas, Son of a Leather/Poly Family. I’m a High Protocol Dominant and require formality in address and behaviour when situation and relationships call for it. I’m the Manager of Unmarked Place and take that and my role as the Chapter’s Disciplinarian very seriously.
Looking For: Play partners, long-term relationship. I’m also the initial contact for any club events at the Unmarked Place, see website for details.
Form of Address: This of course depends upon our relationship. If you are my Submissive then I expect to be called Master unless otherwise told. Failing this you may call me Spencer. I don’t suggest that you attempt to call me Spence.
References: Master Daniel (past mentor, Las Vegas Chapter), Master Robert (current mentor, New Jersey Chapter)
Tom
Orientation: Submissive, Bi
Family role: Born into The Family. Submissive Representative and Committee Member of the New Jersey Chapter
Top 5 Kinks: Rope Bondage, Kneeling, Military Uniforms, Gags, Fisting
About Me: I’m from Chicago where I acted for years as the assistant for the local Submissive Rep so when Master Robert and Sir Patrick asked if I was interested in helping to set up the New Jersey chapter, the opportunity was too good to miss. I’m a freelance photo-journalist and am currently mentoring two Submissives.
Looking For: Play partners, long-term relationship. Available to help with the training and/or mentorship of new Submissives/Slaves.
Victoria
Orientation: Dominant, Bi
Family role: Born into The Family. Sponsor of Nate. Top Representative and Committee Member of the New Jersey Chapter,
Top 5 Kinks: Riding Crops, Hair Pulling, Obedience Training, Anal Play, Breast/Nipple Torture
About Me: I’m from New York and teach piano at a music college. I am engaged to Nate and sponsored him into the Family. We’re outgoing and active in the local scene, love to play in public for fun or educational purposes. I’m usually happy to loan out my pet for training (he can always use more!) or service so if you’re interested or want to just chat, you can usually find us at Unmarked Place.
Form of Address: Miss Victoria
Looking For: Friendship, play-partners, a possible third into our relationship.
Alex
Orientation: Switch, Gay
Family role: Born into The Family
Top 5 Kinks: Roleplay, Spanking, Erotic Photography, Sensation Play, Dirty Talk
About Me: Hi, I’m Alex. I’m from New York City and a trained chef, currently working as Head Chef for the Unmarked Place Family Club in New Jersey. I’m in a committed relationship with my boyfriend Ryland. We’re both switches and occasionally like to play with others. We’re active in the local scene and he’s Switch Rep for the New Jersey Chapter.
Looking For: Social and business contacts in the New Jersey area.
Bob
Orientation: Dominant, Bi
Family role: Sponsored into The Family. Co-Founder and Committee Member for New Jersey
Chapter, Mentor
Top 5 Kinks: Knifeplay, Bondage (heavy), Discipline, Collar & Leash, Wax-play
About Me: I’ve moved into New Jersey to start a new Chapter as there was no local one, with my friend Patrick. We’ve also opened a club - Unmarked Place. It caters to Family and non-Family alike. We think it’s awesome. Check it out. (link)
Form of Address: In scenes or in formal address you will refer to me as Master Robert. Otherwise Sir or Bob are sufficient depending on the nature of our relationship.
Looking For: I’m always on the look-out for play partners, new Mentees and business contacts in the New Jersey area.
References: Lord Alan (sponsor and Mentor), Madam Christine (former Mentee), Phil Atwood (former Slave), all from the North Chicago Chapter.
Gerard
Orientation: Dominant, Bi
Family role: Sponsored into The Family by Mistress Lindsey (LynZ). Committee Member for New Jersey Chapter
Top 5 Kinks: Whips, Tattoos, Boot Worship, Power Exchange, Orgasm Control
About Me: Originally from New Jersey. I’m an architect who dabbles at being a comic book artist. I’m a backer of the Unmarked Place family club in New Jersey. Not particularly scene these days as my two Submissives are not Family.
Form of Address: Gerard or Sir, depending on our relationship.
Looking For: Available for commission design work - architectural or other. Discount for Family members.
Lindsey
Orientation: Dominant, Bi
Family role: Born into the Family. Sponsor of Gerard, Committee Member for New Jersey Chapter
Top 5 Kinks: Whips, Sadism, Fetishwear, Needle Play, Power Exchange
About Me: I’m from LA but currently my job takes me all around the country. My boutique chain specialises in high-quality underwear, as well as fetish/roleplay costumes. Discounts available for Family members. I’m currently unattached although I scene actively. If you think you have an offer to make that would interest me, feel free to get in touch.
Form of Address: Mistress Lindsey as a default, unless otherwise permitted.
Looking For: Business contacts always welcome. Open for Submissive/slave applications, casual or long-term.
Nate
Orientation: Submissive/slave, Bi
Family role: Sponsored into The Family by VickyT
Top 5 Kinks: Pet Play, Threesomes, Obedience Training, OTK Spanking, Forced Orgasms
About Me: I’m from Tennessee, but moved to New Jersey for a job. I got into the Family after falling head over heels for this gorgeous woman, who turned out to be much more than met the eye... I’m a collared Submissive/pet of Miss Victoria and we are very happy together.
Looking For: My owner is happy for us to scene with others. However, the decision of whom to play with is hers, so please contact Miss Victoria directly if you are interested.
Patrick
Orientation: Dominant, Bi
Family role: Sponsored into The Family, Co-Founder and Committee Member for New Jersey Chapter
Top 5 Kinks: Kneeling, Breathplay, Marking, Mental BDSM, Begging
About Me: I’m from Glenview, Illinois. Finding the Family was what helped me come to terms with who I am, and I got involved with the North Chicago Chapter from relatively early age. I worked in the music industry as a producer for a number of years, before setting out on my own a few months ago. I’ve also recently moved into New Jersey, to finally become more than just a silent partner in the Family Chapter and Club (Unmarked Place - link) there, which I co-founded with Master Bob.
Looking For: Music contacts/jobs (composition, arrangement, production). I almost never play casually and I prefer to scene with people I’ve actually met and gotten to know through mutual contacts/at the club anyway. So unless you plan on being in the New Jersey area to make your case personally, I’m not interested.
Form of Address: It’s not what you say so much as how you say it. Calling me by my given name is
fine, but I do not stand for disrespect.
References: Madam Lisa and Sir Tremain from the North Chicago Chapter (mentors and sponsors). Can provide contacts of former play-partners/Submissives on request.
Pete
Orientation: Submissive, Bi
Family role: Born into The Family
Top 5 Kinks: Beating, Exhibitionism, Dirty Talk, Service (sexual), Collars (with the right person)
About Me: im originally from Illinois but later moved to new jersey. my Mentor was the well known and respected Lady Bea, from chicago, who as you probably know passed away suddenly in 2004. After a few years of moving around I settled in new jersey. im currently in business with my friend Andy, creating and demonstrating handmade bdsm items and tools. im active in workshops and demonstrations within the scene, come check me out. i write a lot.
Looking For: if you have it, im probably looking for it.
Ryan
Orientation: Toppy Switch, Bi
Family role: Sponsored into The Family.
Top 5 Kinks: Costumes and Dressing Up, Restraining, Clothes pegs, Floggers, Wax play
About Me: I am originally from Las Vegas but now live in New Jersey. I was raised by the Smith Leather Family although I don’t myself identify as such. I’m currently in a long-term open relationship with my Submissive, Brendon, who is thinking about wanting a Sponsor into the Family. I’m a postgraduate student in Creative Writing and English Literature, specialising in the Beat poets.
Looking For: My Submissive is looking for a Sponsor and formal Mentor into the Family. Because of my age and our relationship I don’t feel comfortable in taking on this role. Please contact me if you are genuinely interested in this.
References: Master Daniel (mentor, Las Vegas Chapter), Madam Ginger (Smith Leather Family, Las Vegas Chapter)
Ryland
Orientation: Switch, Bi
Family role: Born into The Family, Switch Representative and Committee Member of the New Jersey Chapter
Top 5 Kinks: Spanking, Erotic Photography, Sensation Play, Flogging (light), Shibari
About me: I am originally from Wilmington. I’m in a committed relationship with my partner, Alex. I’m a stage actor and a pretty easygoing guy. I have a large collection of woolly hats and enjoy knitting (Alex said every actor needed a quirk. I chose this because now I never have to think about what to get people for Christmas...)
Looking for: Occasional play partners, friendship and social connections. Stage roles are always welcome as is most other type of acting work (not porn!)
Spencer
Orientation: Dominant, Gay
Family role: Born into The Family, Disciplinarian and Committee Member of the New Jersey Chapter, Manager of Unmarked Place
Top 5 Kinks: Discipline, Ropework and Suspension, Shibari, Orgasm Control, Sensation Play
About Me: I’m from Las Vegas, Son of a Leather/Poly Family. I’m a High Protocol Dominant and require formality in address and behaviour when situation and relationships call for it. I’m the Manager of Unmarked Place and take that and my role as the Chapter’s Disciplinarian very seriously.
Looking For: Play partners, long-term relationship. I’m also the initial contact for any club events at the Unmarked Place, see website for details.
Form of Address: This of course depends upon our relationship. If you are my Submissive then I expect to be called Master unless otherwise told. Failing this you may call me Spencer. I don’t suggest that you attempt to call me Spence.
References: Master Daniel (past mentor, Las Vegas Chapter), Master Robert (current mentor, New Jersey Chapter)
Tom
Orientation: Submissive, Bi
Family role: Born into The Family. Submissive Representative and Committee Member of the New Jersey Chapter
Top 5 Kinks: Rope Bondage, Kneeling, Military Uniforms, Gags, Fisting
About Me: I’m from Chicago where I acted for years as the assistant for the local Submissive Rep so when Master Robert and Sir Patrick asked if I was interested in helping to set up the New Jersey chapter, the opportunity was too good to miss. I’m a freelance photo-journalist and am currently mentoring two Submissives.
Looking For: Play partners, long-term relationship. Available to help with the training and/or mentorship of new Submissives/Slaves.
Victoria
Orientation: Dominant, Bi
Family role: Born into The Family. Sponsor of Nate. Top Representative and Committee Member of the New Jersey Chapter,
Top 5 Kinks: Riding Crops, Hair Pulling, Obedience Training, Anal Play, Breast/Nipple Torture
About Me: I’m from New York and teach piano at a music college. I am engaged to Nate and sponsored him into the Family. We’re outgoing and active in the local scene, love to play in public for fun or educational purposes. I’m usually happy to loan out my pet for training (he can always use more!) or service so if you’re interested or want to just chat, you can usually find us at Unmarked Place.
Form of Address: Miss Victoria
Looking For: Friendship, play-partners, a possible third into our relationship.