just in case you didn't read my other entry
I TOTALLY RECOMMEND DOING THIS: write down everything you are looking for in your future spouse. everything. dream a little. if you want him to have facial hair, of to have 6% body fat, write it down. Then put a star next to the ones that are truly important to you (ie. being a Christian, someone who will cherish you, or being able to carry on a deep conversation). This doesn't have to be religious or anything, but think about things that YOU want in your future. do you want kids? it's important that he does too. Then if you are dating someone, and he/she does not fit some really important items on your list, consider if you would really marry that person. if you wouldn't, then why lead them on. you never know how your feelings can progress. He may love you, and want to get married, when that hasn't even crossed you mind, you're just in it for the fun of it all.
^that isn't directed toward and one individual. but i recommend doing it. it makes you really think about your future, plus it's pretty fun. it also makes you search deeper for some things. i know when i was doing it, i started writing, and didn't even think about the person that i like, but focussed on what i truly want for myself, and possible kids (the kids i want at least). it was fun though... do it!
^that isn't directed toward and one individual. but i recommend doing it. it makes you really think about your future, plus it's pretty fun. it also makes you search deeper for some things. i know when i was doing it, i started writing, and didn't even think about the person that i like, but focussed on what i truly want for myself, and possible kids (the kids i want at least). it was fun though... do it!