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Aug 06, 2007 13:11

next time i'm invited to a wedding, someone remind me that it's not really THEIR wedding. maybe i can get a better seat, or some great vegetarian food, or have them schedule the rehearsal around my needs. threats, bitching, throwing tantrums, screaming, and crying are all fair game when getting my demands met. i didn't know that a wedding celebration (that's right, a celebration where friends and relatives come to support the people getting married, offer their encouragement, dance, and eat) could be shat upon by all of the guests; so much so that it feels like i dug up my own little piece of hell. i was going to have a get together after the reception at our house. i figured it would be nice for people to come over, relax, see the house, drink and eat a little more. allan and laura said that i was insane to even want to have people come over; nevermind have food and beverages available. i agree. for one thing, they all behaved like assholes since the engagement (that was assumed to be shot-gun...but oh wait...it was to limit the amount of time that i could be criticized, yelled at, and made to feel like crap), and for another, it's our wedding night. i don't need to hear the re-cap of all that went wrong. every ounce of my body says, "fuck 'em." do i really need all of that negative energy surrounding everything that i do in preparation to be married? no. what i need is a mute button and a wood chipper.
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