oh my fucking god...REALLY?
Okay, so, Monday night a friend IMs me and says he is meeting a friend from the internet (Probably Everquest or something...I don't even fucking know) at Mammoth Cave this week. He then says "I'll probably come up sometime Tuesday afternoon and just stay at your place for a few days." Note that there was no asking for permission there, just that he was going to do it. I was like, okay, whatever, I haven't seen this friend in a few months, It'll be fine. So he shows up Tuesday and everything is okay. I say that Geneva, Auto, and Kyle are going to the fair and wanted to know if we were going with them (I had planned on going). "Not really, no." was his response...and that was the end of that conversation. =\
Last night I went to make a place on the floor for him to sleep and he says "Is that where you're sleeping?" Still trying to play the nice host I said yes, and slept there. At 3am I am woken up by him talking on the phone. Loudly. And BOTH lights in my room are on. I just get up without a word and turn both of them back off and lay back down in the floor and try to sleep again.
I come home from work today and he is sitting in my room talking to some 60-something year old man that I've never seen before. This is his friend from the internet. He gave someone I don't even know my fucking address and then had them come to the house and then let them into my house and my bedroom. WTF WHO DOES THAT?
While I was waiting for them to leave for mammoth cave they were discussing plans and Andrew says to his friend "You could just stay here tonight, I mean, this room is pretty big." I immediately interjected that I had to clear that with the other roommates, which was my way of avoiding saying "Excuse me? Fuck no." I am still definitely veto-ing that plan.
THEN he was saying that he planned on staying Thursday night too so he didn't have to drive back in the evening. I forgot at the time but luckily I am going to see the Wizard of Oz tomorrow in Glasgow so I get to tell him he has to leave tomorrow.
Oh, and something else I forgot. I told him I had a date Thursday morning. The boy I'm kind-of seeing right now works nights so we see each other when we can. His response to this? "Oh. Well, I mean, you can reschedule that." Once again, not a question, a statement.
I try to be as nice as I can to everyone, and I don't mind letting him stay here to make his plans easier, but REALLY? REALLY? That is just rude and COMPLETELY unacceptable. COMPLETELY. OH MY GOD I WANT TO PUNCH HIM IN THE FACE SO BAD. Am I out of line by thinking that way? No, I'm not. I'm being taken advantage of and I do not appreciate it at all. Thursday can not get here soon enough.
I should also mention that this friend is like 23 or 24 and still lives with his parents. And as far as I know there are no plans even in the works for him getting his own place in the near future at all. His still living with his parents shows, it REALLY does. But...I mean...a COMPLETE lack of manners or social etiquette just baffles me. I would feel like shit if I did this to someone.
Last night I went to make a place on the floor for him to sleep and he says "Is that where you're sleeping?" Still trying to play the nice host I said yes, and slept there. At 3am I am woken up by him talking on the phone. Loudly. And BOTH lights in my room are on. I just get up without a word and turn both of them back off and lay back down in the floor and try to sleep again.
I come home from work today and he is sitting in my room talking to some 60-something year old man that I've never seen before. This is his friend from the internet. He gave someone I don't even know my fucking address and then had them come to the house and then let them into my house and my bedroom. WTF WHO DOES THAT?
While I was waiting for them to leave for mammoth cave they were discussing plans and Andrew says to his friend "You could just stay here tonight, I mean, this room is pretty big." I immediately interjected that I had to clear that with the other roommates, which was my way of avoiding saying "Excuse me? Fuck no." I am still definitely veto-ing that plan.
THEN he was saying that he planned on staying Thursday night too so he didn't have to drive back in the evening. I forgot at the time but luckily I am going to see the Wizard of Oz tomorrow in Glasgow so I get to tell him he has to leave tomorrow.
Oh, and something else I forgot. I told him I had a date Thursday morning. The boy I'm kind-of seeing right now works nights so we see each other when we can. His response to this? "Oh. Well, I mean, you can reschedule that." Once again, not a question, a statement.
I try to be as nice as I can to everyone, and I don't mind letting him stay here to make his plans easier, but REALLY? REALLY? That is just rude and COMPLETELY unacceptable. COMPLETELY. OH MY GOD I WANT TO PUNCH HIM IN THE FACE SO BAD. Am I out of line by thinking that way? No, I'm not. I'm being taken advantage of and I do not appreciate it at all. Thursday can not get here soon enough.
I should also mention that this friend is like 23 or 24 and still lives with his parents. And as far as I know there are no plans even in the works for him getting his own place in the near future at all. His still living with his parents shows, it REALLY does. But...I mean...a COMPLETE lack of manners or social etiquette just baffles me. I would feel like shit if I did this to someone.