Jan 02, 2006 23:18
I know, I know.. I dont update much. I suck, yadda yadda. :)
anyway. I went up to kirkland today to visit linsey. aaaand we did lots of shopping and girl stuff and it was fun. We went to eat and we were sitting there talking and she mentioned how friends of hers dont come and see her even though they only live like somewhere between 5 and 20 minutes away give or take. and it is so sad because a lot of them are people shes known for a long time and used to be uber close with. then now that she lives in new mexico whenever she comes up here people dont goo and see her. well shes been back up here for quite some time and shes leaving in a week or two. and this makes me sad. Im sort of a busy person, but I try to make time for going to visit her when shes here when I have a free day. I live all the way out in the boonies (it takes awhile to drive there, probably over an hour.. well over an hour if there is traffic) and why am I the only friend of hers that goes to visit her? shes a lovely person and I enjoy her company. You'd think now that shes pregnant more people would be even more thrilled to go see her and all her pregnant glowing glory. On the way home I was listening to the readio and the DJ was talking about growing up. and she mentioned as we get older we lose a lot of people we considered friends, for varying reasons. but... even though we have fewer friends, the ones we DO have are awesome.. and always there for you especially when you need it the most. and if they cant be there physically, we know they are in our hearts and us in theirs. how true is that? when we were younger it was popularity, how many friends we had. the qualitity of our friends wasnt as big of a deal. but now.. now its quality, not quantity, that counts. and I just want to *hug* Lindsey so more and let her know that she is awesome, I love her, and I will love Megan (baby) as much as I do her and Curt (her Husband whos overseas)anyway people... if you've read all this so far then you are also probably a true friend because I was too lazy to put this entry into paragraph form :)Linny, you know where to reach me if you need me, and Ill do my best to be a high quality friend we all long for. and that goes for the rest of you, too. :)